One of the most important things that people screw up when it comes to sexual attraction is the “sexual” part.
Whether you are a woman or a man, if you are uncomfortable with your sexuality and you are hiding your sexuality in an interaction with a person of the opposite sex, you will be sending subtle but powerful signals to the person you are talking to that you are not interested…
When you are hiding your sexuality as a woman the interaction feels cold and lacks that sweet, fun, and flirtatious energy that gives a man confidence to enjoy himself with you. It makes him feel his own insecurities more acutely.
As a man, when you are hiding your sexuality, it brings up her shame and misgivings and causes her to hide her feminine radiance.
In both cases, it makes you uncomfortable to even be around.
When you do the work to get comfortable (through practice) with being a sexual creature, you will find that interactions have more energy, possibility, fun, and ease… and you’ll also discover that you become much more attractive and successful with the opposite sex.