“I teach people to have great sex because I’ve never found a better way to help people get what they most deeply want.”
– Alex Allman
About Alex Allman
Alex Allman is the author of the best selling REVOLUTIONARY SEX programs for enhancing sexual pleasure, creating deeper intimacy and communication, and deepening sexual confidence.Since 1993 he has been studying and refining his heart-centered theories on sexuality and relationships.Through his writing, lectures, videos, and public appearances, he has helped tens of thousands of men, women, and couples achieve greater confidence, intimacy, relationship health, and love.
Alex speaks at TEDxSinCity in Las Vegas
Alex Allman at The Man Transformation Conference
Alex Allman speaks to women in Los Angeles
Here’s what people are saying about Alex Allman
I’ve been a long time subscriber to the Allman report and purchased Revolutionary Sex about 4 years ago. I simply love your outlook on sex and relationships. Your advice has made me a better partner to my wife, whom I’ve been with for over 5 years, both in and out of the bedroom. She is continually amazed at how I can surprise her with new and different ways of pleasing her after all these years. In fact, she asked outright if I was seeing other people as she could not comprehend on how I was learning all this great stuff. That’s when I revealed to her that I do a lot of reading on the subject. She just said, “Well then keep reading!”.
In short, I love your work. […]
I’m writing to you today to not only thank you but also to let you know the impact it’s had on my life. […]
I successfully ordered it from the new page, and managed multiple (3) orgasms on my first try during the second week – pretty cool stuff!
“Wow! It really works. I saw results as soon as I started I can’t keep her hands off me!”
I have been receiving your newsletters for several month’s now and have purchased and read “Revolutionary Sex”. I want to tell you that I am very impressed with the quality of the information and advice you give. Your book is FILLED with sound, healthy facts and techniques which I have used and they really do work. My partner and I have great sex and we are very much in love. I am over 50 and can attest to the fact that following the advise you give works (I would have to censor this if I repeated what she often tells me!). Your newsletters are sensitive to the individuals and their situations which impresses me greatly. It is obvious to me that you really do care about helping men (and thereby helping women) enjoy their sex relationships.
Thanks for being one of the few guys on the internet that are QUALITY people and have integrity. Keep up the great work you are doing!!
I am a purchaser of your book revolutionary sex, I would say I stumbled upon your website looking for a way to improve the quality of sex I was having with my partner of 3 years. It had seemed like things had become mundane and boring in our sex life. When we first met I genuinely thought I was pleasing her. But as time went on sex was less frequent and less involved and well what I was thinking was a healthy sex life was dwindling down the drain… So I found your website and figured what the hell is it going to hurt to just buy this book and read it and just see what its about, even if its complete BS im only out a little bit of money at this point it wasnt about money but finding a solution and oh my did I find a solution. The information supplied in your book was great, not just about how to please a women but most importantly about ourselves as men and how to be great in bed. Once I let all my insecurities free and threw out these pre-concieved idea’s of what is good sex is and really learned how to pay attention to my partner I can say my sex life is back on track. The level of orgasm’s she achieves is absolutely out of this world, im pretty sure she was faking before because now its just so raw,loud, and her body tremble’s like i had never experinced before. My stamina is much increased, I find myself in control I come when I want to and can go 4-5 rounds in a night easy now. I just had to say thanks. It is really funny how all these problems that us men experince seem to be so mental and once you can just let yourself be natural and do what just feels natural in the bedroom not only does the exploration of it get quite fun, but its great for both people involved, your book is a lifesaver.
Last night i used some of your techniques on my girl friend. I got her to squirt for the first time and many times after that. At first she was yelling my name and by the end she was screaming at the top of her lungs. Thank you for teaching me how to get my girl addicted to me.
“Alex, I really dig your advice. […] Just your tips alone have worked out SUPER well. Now every time I have sex, it’s followed by her saying “HOLY SHIT HOW DID YOU DO THAT” HAHAHA! It’s great, thanx alot!”
“Hi Alex, Recently I purchased a copy of your book and I’d like to let you know that it worked. We had a number of best love making experiences with my wife. That helped us to advance to next level in our relationships, and introduced much more pleasure for both of us into our bedroom life.
BTW, I am person with Cerebral Palsy and book worked. It proves one more time that your physical qualities, strength and even coordination are not what matters most.
I find it essential to mention, that in my opinion your book is not really about sex. In my opinion, it is all about love, and that is just amazing. I learned to feel, understand and sense my wife my deeper than I was able to before. I truly needed that piece of philosophy I found in your book to understand my wife. I am pretty sure, that for most men, including me, it’s not possible to understand what’s going on (without help) since we’re so different with women.
Surprisingly, I reevaluated my life as well. After reading your book I turned upside down other aspects of my life as well, and I feel great. It’s a major breakthrough.
My wife […] also thanks you and wishes that more men read your book, since there are so many unhappy women in our world.
“I was just cruising around the internet when I stumbled onto your book. The book that quite possibly changed my life. Up until a week ago I was a virgin. lol just as clueless as can be. As me and my girlfriend got more and more close and more in love we finally decided that it was time to reach a deeper relationship. I ran everything I could remember from your introductory and the previous newsletter. […] I listened and paid attention to her body as you said to do. after we were worn out and laying down to recover she kept telling me how much she loves me. That’s when I remembered that you said there is a huge emotion afterwards so I did my best to comfort her. Later that night I asked her about it and she said that I had done things to her that no one else (she was not a virgin) had done…”
your reaserch is incredible my sex life has changed drastically and even though i’ve been with my wife 6 years we did not know each others uncomfortableness with each other during sex and our insecurities thank you alex your the man
Thank you so much Alex for getting back to me so fast. Awesome customer service!!!
the tips on your site were great, and my girlfriend had more orgasms than she could count. she used to have the odd few that wasn’t very ‘amazing’, as she said, compared to after using the tips.she even asked for sex again later on that day because it was that good and again she was a very happy bunny and it took her about 15 minuets to ‘come back to earth’.
thanks a bunch,
“Alex, I have been always had a problem PE. Most likely due to the fact that my parents were always against me being in any relationships or situations with girls in general, whether it was the fourth grade dance or the movies. I have always had a guilty conscience about sex. I recently started dating a girl that is very sexually charged. The fact that she was more experienced than me, just made me uncomfortable. My only goal during sex was pleasuring her. In turn, I had such a high anxiety about coming too early, I couldn’t help but focus all my energy on what my dick was doing, and sure enough, twenty seconds later… In the end she wasn’t satisfied, and neither was I.
Two days ago, I purchased your book online and read the first 100 pages. Last night (and this morning), I had the best sex of my entire life. It was great. I would say the best thing I came away with after reading was the general attitude I had about sex. Your personable writing presence (something doctors and therapists really miss when writing things in this subject) set the stage for a major priority change that I desperately needed. Realizing that the purpose of sex is for an intimate connection, being there with her, right then, in that single moment. The breathing method really helped broaden my focus to her whole body and helped me relax, very good advice. Thank you so much.”
And to everyone that continues to take that breathtaking plunge into surrender, everything that I am thanks you.
I think you are right on with your messages and tips.
I wondered if you have a graduate list? Lol These are the type of guys I want to meet!
“Alex, To start off with, I would kiss you if I could.
Up until a few weeks ago, my partner’s performance was something of a undisclosed part of our relationship. He would always change the subject if I tried to bring up our sex life (or therefore lack of). However, I noticed a change in him and gradually he became more aggressive in bed (but in a very, very, very good way.) Through the grape vine I found out that he’d been reading your articles and I’m more than happy to brag to people that you’ve changed him for the better. So thank you, so much for giving him that.
P.S., I forgot to mention that you are a genius and that the women of the world would thank you if they could.”