What do butterflies, drunk people partying on a boat in the Caribbean, and anal sex all have in common?
Well… not much except maybe this video.
Plenty of couples include anal play as a basic part of their sexual relationship… for others it’s a very touchy subject… here’s a guide to help you through…
Oh, and check out the hundreds of yellow butterflies that were migrating past us while we filmed on the beach!
Thanks for the tips Alex! I have one question though, when a girl comes is that the same as an orgasm?
Yep. “Coming” and having an orgasm are used inter-changeably and mean the same thing. Sometimes people spell the word “cum,” which means orgasm (mail or female), but also refers to actual ejaculate or semen.
Now that female ejaculation has become such a hot topic, a lot of people will use the word “cum,” referring to women (as in, “I made her cum”), as specifically meaning, having a woman ejaculate while having an orgasm.
There’s a LOT of info about female ejaculation in my book. 2 things you should definitely know right now are…
1) Yes, you should learn how to make your woman ejaculate. It’s a great part of sexuality to share that most women don’t get to experience.
2) No, a woman does not have to ejaculate to have the orgasm of her life. If your woman doesn’t ejaculate it doesn’t mean that either you or she is missing out on anything, and it doesn’t mean that it’s not an incredible and wonderful experience for her.
Thank you Alex for the anal sex tip. It seems like something that I will try after I’ve already learned how to completely give woman vaginal orgasms consistently.
What is amazing, is how even a young woman who has never had anal sex, but is really curious about wanting to try it…can take it hard for a long time. I remember I had a 21 year old girlfriend, who had never tried it…and she was very open-minded. She not only wanted to try it, but she demanded that I give it to her, as part of her sexual education. I tried to be slow and careful, but she said, “skip all that first time stuff and just give it to me. That’s the only way I’ll learn.” So after the proper lube was completed, she put me inside her, and said, “pound me like you never have. I want to take it hard as you can give it.” So for like 20 minutes I gave her the anal sex she requested at full speed and strength. I was about to have a heart attack, until she said, “how are you still going? You came in me like two minutes ago.” I stopped….and realized, I was on such a mission, I hadn’t even realized I had cum in her. She took it like a real champion, and I respected her open-minded student-like approach. She didn’t really ask for it again any time soon, but she said she was very happy that she at least gave it a try, and did the best she could. I told her I was very proud of her. It had given her a more well rounded sexual education.