Here’s a fun technique you can use to bring some teasing play to your sexual adventures tonight…
Teasing is one of the best ways to create more sexual tension, ramp up turn-on, and get your partner crazed with lust!
As always, I’d love your comments below…
NINE!!!! TEN!!!! lol
I get a kick out of you Alex. You take it so for granted that its easy to find a woman who isn’t borderline psychotic or narcissistic these days to play the teasing game with in the first place. Three weeks of dating one is about all I can handle. All they want to do is f-ck. No personality, tons of baggage, drama up the ass, don’t have a clue about life at all.
You must be broadcasting from Southern California because the girls up here in North country (Michigan) ain’t worth shit.
Hey Ken, sorry you’re having woman-selection-troubles.
You may be having a run of bad luck, but I assure you, there are loads of fantastic women – sexy, charming, warm-hearted, fun to be with, and emotionally mature – and all right where you live.
Of course, it MIGHT be more than bad luck… the one thing all of these women have in common is dating you. And that opens 2 important possibilities:
1) You are attracting and/or attracted to women who have no personality, tons of baggage, drama up the ass, and don’t have a clue about life at all. Or…
2) Humans are complex creatures and we all have this thing in common: We are imperfect animals with many different facets and sides to our personality. We are ALL capable of great maturity, nobility of character, and deeply satisfying relationships… and we are ALL capable of drama up the ass, etc.
Personality is a chemical reaction that happens between an individual and who/what they are relating to. Your personality with your pals is different than with your mom, and different again with a thug holding a gun to your head, or an attractive woman you just met. So is hers.
It’s my experience that some men find one fantastic woman after another, and some men find only “drama up the ass” types. And it’s my observation that most of the time if women are consistently behaving that way with you it is because that is the side of them that you are bringing out. Perhaps by your expectations?
It’s worth contemplating as a possibility.
Best of luck in Michigan! Trust me when I say: There are great girls up there!
I have to totally agree with you, Alex. It is my experience, both my own and from talks with my friends, that the girls you attract tend to reflect the personality, you are displaying. I am 53 years old now, and I meet more beautiful, fun and loving women now, when I’m in an extroverted, fun fase of my life, than I did, when I was young and shy – but I do not deduce, that women are more attractive now than then. I, on the other hand, am more attractive.
And I always see people around me attract the same personality types throughout their lives, going through the samme ups and downs again and again, because they never change their act. People like Ken need to look in the mirror – like I did years ago – and get rid of the blemishes that keep them from meeting and living with the good women of… where ever 🙂
Thanks for all your good advice, Alex 🙂
Thanks Per, you are right on. The key distinction that I battle with my readers to teach them is that they are capable of change.
Before someone buys one of my programs they need to have some glimmer of hope at least that change is possible. Often I “sell” them on the idea that there is a secret “technique” in the program, and if they just press their finger against this magic place on her skin, and then wiggle it in just the right way, that they will be able to re-make her reality.
In fact, the reality I aim to re-make is not their lover, but their own. Ultimately my programs have the goal, not of giving men the techniques to give women pleasure, but to give them the insights to become great lovers that can attract, seduce, play, and enjoy women in a way that creates an amazing and endlessly erotic and delicious sex and romantic life for both of them.
But I can’t “sell” that in my offers because it’s so damn hard to get men to believe they are capable of that kind of powerful transformation.
I agree with you Alex! After 2 marriages and 1 serious relationship in between…and all 3 were rather horrible, I realized there were 2 common denominators. One was me, and the other was that I had chosen to be with 3 people who had VERY similar personality types.
After realizing this, I made it a point to broaden my perspective, go outside my comfort zone and explore the possibility of dating men who didn’t have that same personality type. It wasn’t easy. We tend to gravitate towards what we know and are comfortable with. Hence, my having 3 relationships with what can be considered the “same” man.
I am now in an incredible relationship with a man who is the exact opposite of the type of man I have always attracted or been attracted to. To put it mildly, he rocks my world!!
I really appreciate your website because it gives me new ideas and things to try. Our sex life is out of this world. 😉
Thank you again!
This teasing of your partner with the increase/ decrease in thrusting also helps me prolong my orgasm giving me enough control to have my wife orgasm many times over until she begs me to come. I’m 62, married over 20 years, and still learning. Thanks Alex.
Why is the photo of two girls?
So that more guys will watch it and learn.
Amazingly Said..just do it its so important….
Things woman love: Gently not letting her shy away from recieving oral.. Just lightly put her hands on her hips as Alex has said…Then say Just let me taste you I want too….
Shushing with a whisper if she’s starts getting nervous giddy or too chatty say…shush…let me take care of you..m
Dominate….Say You like this dont you? Is this what you want? etc etc. women get wild with that in their mind
Oh yes sweetheart thats right you know what your doing keep going…
For Men: They love to be teased and don’t know it try with his oral links and sucks as ALEX said then throw in Ummm you like that dont you big boy…or yes you are so delicious men actually live cock worship the best.. tell him oh my its so smooth and you taste amazing then don’t say a word and get going…
Dom for men…Say things as You want the pussy you own? while whispering…you can have your pussy but lay back and let me suck you first love…They go cave man wild with that one…
Just a few get started,I’m sure Alex is smirking right now…
I might have to have you write a guest post 🙂