What was your best kiss ever?
Would your partner say that YOU are the best kisser he/she has ever been with?
Here’s the one tip you need to make sure the answer is going to be “YES!”
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I love the kiss help thanks its better feel all natural!!! I lost the membership I lost would you sent me againg please that I pay monthly!?
Hey Charlie, I’ll have Christina or June contact you about that.
Great Video! Great Topic. It’s something people don’t talk about much, how to be a great kisser. Keep it coming : )
Kissing is such an important prelude to sex. It connects, intices and excites. A soft gentle.three second kiss can reduce a person to a quivering breathless being, who is blown away.
Being in touch with your sensitive lips and mouth and the other person’s equal sensitive mouth can connect you to your sensuality, quite apart from sexuality.
We spend so much time kissing as teenagers ( if lucky) and forget the joys of a good snog as adults. Too readily moving towards sexuality, we forget or don’t even know how to, connect with sensuality. Spending time in the kissing zone and just allowing yourself to fall into its pleasure, not rushing into the next move/phase and allowing yourself the exquisite sensations connecting your whole body to your oral receptors, can allow your entire body to be receptive to that person.
Whether this is a three second kiss or an hour long kiss, the perfection of it is in being in touch with your own body and appreciating the perfection of the person you are kissing.
Nice one Alex. Love it. Great point – Don’t hide the truth, let the truth be contagious.
Thanks Alex for these tips! I’ve been feeling uneasy when kissing with my boyfriend almost every time (95 % of the time) because it feels like he does not really enjoy it. He also has said that he’s not so much into kissing, that he does it more for my sake than his own. When we kiss I usually start thinking too much about how he is experiencing the situation and that anxiety and thoughts about technique that you talked about in the video strikes upon me. It seems quite hard to just let all of that go, but I will try your tip about focusing on my desire instead, and to dare to let it come forth.
Hi Josephine, the #1 thing here is that, absolutely, getting out of the self-conscious thing and getting into your enjoyment is going to be a BIG improvement.
When other people are reaction monitoring during lovemaking, touch, or even just conversation, we can FEEL it as stressful and off-putting. I KNOW that it is hard to just let all that go… but practice makes it easier and easier.
You have to be willing to let the whole thing fail spectacularly and still love yourself. You have to know in your bones that you’re right and good, that kissing is right and good and natural and pleasurable, and that you receiving that pleasure is right and good and that you deserve it, right now, in this time of your one and only life.
AND, also, it’s hard to know what kind of dysfunction the boyfriend has going on that he doesn’t like kissing. Kissing has been shown to be instinctive and biological, not a cultural phenomenon. Humans kiss naturally, and we enjoy it naturally. If he doesn’t, then something is not right there (or you have seriously bad breath!)…
I would not make him bad and wrong for it… that will be unhelpful and make him insecure and defensive. But I wonder if through some childhood traumatic event or some accidental wiring of a belief (like kissing isn’t manly, or something like that), he somehow got cut off from this most natural of pleasures. Exploring that gently and lovingly with him (you have to be able to do it in a way that does not trigger his defensiveness and insecurities) might be appropriate.
Hey alex really enjoy the video..this really opened up my mind to things i did wrong in the past..like worrying of my partner is enjoy the experience as much as i am and if she is as turned on as i am..do you have any suggestions that would help in this area..like i noticed i would be in bed with a partner and we would be kissing and stuff would get heated but die out quickly
My female friend told me that, That was the worse kiss she has ever had in her life. I admit I do not have a lot of experience with woman, I admit I only had one woman and that was for 34 years and we kissed the same way all those years and she never complained about it once.