If you want to be more confident with women, then you will want to watch the video below.
The truth is, most men really struggle when it comes to being cool, natural, and confident when they are with a woman that they are attracted to. Crazy enough, some men still have this anxiety long into a relationship…
For some reason when we’re with a woman that we really, really dig, it can be hard for us to believe, on some deep and sometimes unconscious level, that we deserve her. We feel like she’ll figure that out and leave us for someone bigger, richer, more handsome, etc. (And the horrible irony is that it is exactly this kind of lack of confidence that makes women leave).
The gigantic, almost impossible problem that most men face when they feel a lack of confidence around women is that they will do a google search and find a zillion different websites, videos, articles, books, and workshops designed to teach them how to fake confidence using everything from conversational tricks to faking confident body language.
And while that can have some short-term result in “tricking” a woman into thinking you’re more confident than you are, it actually does the opposite of BUILDING you confidence… it undermines it, by demonstrating to you that YOU NEED TRICKS… you can’t authentically be confident.
This is a crazy loop that a lot of guys get into, and if they aren’t really good actors, it gets worse because they constantly experience ALMOST getting a woman, and then she figures out his game before he gets what he wants…
And, of course, if what he wants is an actual relationship, affection, a girl whose actually crazy about him and that he can just relax and have fun with… or god forbid if he actually wants LOVE… well, that shit can destroy a man and make him feel that he is alone in the world.
Other men will join the large groups of woman-hating groups out there and blame the women. After all, no matter what he does, the women reject him, they clearly disrespect him and find him unworthy of their attention… And that’s such a horrible shame because what she is rejecting, disrespecting, and finding unworthy is that fucking act that he feels like he can’t do without.
So that leaves a very difficult question:
If you are a man who didn’t win the genetic lottery and just pop out of the womb full of confidence… how can you learn to be TRULY confident? Is it even possible?
Watch the video for a great first step…
I’ll warn you in advance… the distinctions are simple, but the DOING of them can be challenging and requires commitment and practice.
But it is 100% worth the effort if you want to develop authentic, magnetic confidence with women.