Sexual dominance is a huge turn on… and not just for women.

Everyone loves a partner who knows how to be sexually dominant in a way that is fun, sexy, and natural. For many women, a sexually dominant partner who knows how to guide her erotically is the first/only/best way to reach orgasm.

For many men, a sexually dominant partner is one of those fantasies that they’ve given up on because women just don’t understand it or they don’t have the confidence to do it.

There is, of course, another side to dominance…

Submission.

And both dominance and submission are important parts of the sexual/emotional vocabulary of great sex.

Nobody just wants to be bossed around. Nobody wants to just submit to whatever YOU want to do. Nobody wants a sexual bully.

And, likewise, nobody wants a partner who lays there submissively and allows you to use them like a sex doll.

Dominance and submission are about the erotic dance of primal sexual desire to take and be taken.

Here’s Khal Drogo, my Halloween alter-ego, with 7 tips on how to do sexual domination right!