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2 Important Questions About "Squirting"
***QUESTION FROM A COUPLE***
Dear Alex,
like the advice, my wife and I are truly greatful.
However want to ask you, She's a squirter
sometimes, how can I make her squirt all the time.
She mostly squirts from oral sex or Mr. wiggles
(vibrator). I would like her to cum from
penetration as well. We have great sex but I would
love to take it to the next level.
Best Regards,
S. and F.
>>>MY REPLY
Great question!
Believe it or not, there may be a real physical
reason that your wife can't "squirt" when you are
having actual intercourse.
The ducts that go from the Intra-Urethral
Glands (the glands that cause female ejaculation)
to her urethra are extremely tiny and fine. For
many women, when your penis is inside of her, it
presses these little tubes closed.
So, unfortunately, it is a very common
frustration for couples who experience female
ejaculation together, that they just can't do it
during penetration.
Here's one possible solution that I think both
of you will really enjoy as a compromise--
First, obviously, put down some towels!
Since you've done it before, you probably have
built a strong sensitivity to when it's about to
happen-- you can feel the swelling of the glands,
and you can sense that particular sort of orgasm
building within her.
When you feel like she is just ready to release,
withdraw your penis and rub is along the outside
of her labia and up and down on her clitoris.
This will feel great for you, and if she was
already very close, with the right rhythm and
force (probably fast and firm) she should be able
to go over the edge and squirt.
Right afterwards you can begin penetration
again and if you feel her building up again...
You can repeat the trick.
After that she will almost certainly need a
break for some water and to rest her vocal cords,
and find planet Earth again...
Have fun!
***QUESTION***
hey Alex... Well my problem is this: I've been
trying for a long time, but haven't had much luck
finding my wife's G-spot. I've read your book, and
tried everything I can, but whenever I finger her,
she just complains that it's uncomfortable. Some
times she doesn't mind it, but it doesn't seem to
please her as much as it should. Is there something
I'm missing? How do I really know I've found the
spot? Thanks.
>>>MY REPLY:
Ah... the mysterious "G-spot", that special
little button inside of her that can give her
brain melting orgasms-- if you can find it.
First, let's talk about what it is... then how
to find it... and then what might be going on
with your wife in particular (and many other
women who report EXACTLY the same problem)
So, what is the G-spot?
Well, for years doctors said that it doesn't
exist-- that it was just a figment of some womens'
imaginations.
Needless to say, a lot of screaming women
were a bit peeved with the medical community
telling them that they were "imagining" the
intense feelings they were having.
But the simple fact is, it is STILL not clear
exactly why this little quarter-sized patch in
the vagina seems to send so many women into orbit.
It does not have any more nerve endings than
any other areas of the vagina... so it's a bit of
a mystery.
Here are the two big theories of why it does
what it does--
1) The nerves leaving the clitoris form into a
big bundle before traveling back to the spine and
up to the brain. It's thought that when you press
on the G-spot, you are squeezing that nerve bundle
up against the pubic bone and sending all sorts
of crazy electrical impulses up to the brain.
2) When we are tiny fetuses in the womb, there is
a period of time when both men and women are
exactly alike-- then, over time, as we mature in
our mother's belly, we begin to become different...
the same clump of cells in boys that becomes the
penis, in women becomes the clitoris. The clump
that becomes the testicles in men, becomes the
ovaries in women... etc.
Well, the cells the become the prostate gland in
men become the "Intra-Urethral Glands" (or Skene's
glands) in women.
That's right, the same glands that cause Female
Ejaculation. And it turns out that they are
located right behind the G-spot in her body.
So, just as some men can have an orgasm from
stimulating the prostate gland, maybe women are
experiencing the same thing.
So those are the 2 big theories... but whatever
the reason may be for its effect, there is no
doubt any longer that the G-spot is REAL.
Here's how you find it:
If you lay a woman down on her back and insert
your finger inside of her, it is 2-3 inches
inside along the top wall.
You might feel a small patch of slightly rough
skin in there. If she is already excited, then
this area will feel swollen and spongy.
If you press against the top wall and then
gently stroke your fingers back towards the
opening in a "come here" motion, you will
definitely hit the spot.
Repeating that motion rhythmically, for MOST
women, will be very pleasurable... and if she is
already highly aroused and you find the right
pressure and rhythm, she will have a powerful
orgasm.
So why isn't that happening with your wife?
Well, the first question is, are you on the
right spot?
Many men look for it too deep inside.
Chances are, you ARE on the right spot-- and
I say that because she says it's "uncomfortable."
A LOT of women say that. And it makes good
sense that if you were on the wrong spot, she'd
feel nothing unusual at all-- the fact that she's
feeling something-- even if that feeling is
discomfort, suggests you've found a sensitive
spot.
And it is very common for ANY woman, that if
you touch her G-spot BEFORE SHE IS AROUSED, that
it will be an uncomfortable sensation.
...or you might have the wrong pressure or
rhythm... every woman is different.
...or it's something that will require a more
advanced understanding of how to build Sexual
Trust.
This last explanation is BY FAR the most likely.
Women very often experience discomfort,
ticklishness, or even pain instead of arousal
when you touch their most sensitive erogenous
zones.
Yet these same women are capable of powerful
orgasms from the same touch if you master the
ability to connect with them through the
principles of Sexual Trust.
This is not at all the same as "relationship
trust" or "emotional trust" as you know from some
of my previous Newsletters.
But it is The KEY to giving a woman levels of
sexual pleasure that she probably isn't even
aware that she is CAPABLE of.
When a woman feels Sexual Trust-- that feeling
of arousal that she is with a man who can guide
her safely through powerful sexual experiences,
she "unclenches" some system in her brain that
turns what used to be "discomfort" into "insane
pleasure."
It's a complex topic, but once you understand
it, everything will fall into place quite easily.
Find out for yourself by downloading your copy
of my online e-Book right here:
http://www.revolutionarysex.com/ebook/?s=10083&e=1
As you also know by now, I don't charge your
card for 7 days so that you have a chance to make
sure that it works for you. (And obviously I
wouldn't make this offer if it didn't work for
nearly everyone).
But at the end of the day, if it doesn't work
for you guys, I don't feel like I've earned your
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Check out the details by clicking the link
above.
***QUESTION***
Alex, you seem to be a bright man, I am 54 years
old, and I am experiencing a lack of semen when I
ejaculate, why is that? When at 45, I seemed to be
normal, now I am feeling different. I get the
sensation of an Orgasm, but there is very little
semen, and sometimes nothing at all, why? Can you
respond ASAP? Thank you.
>>>MY REPLY:
Not to worry, my friend. According to doctors,
a drop in the volume of semen and the time it
takes to rebuild the volume of ejaculate goes down
as you get older.
It's normal, and it shouldn't affect your sex
life-- except to make it less messy on the sheets.
Another big factor besides age is weight...
okay, let's not be polite about it... FAT.
Abdominal fat increases the levels of estrogen
in your blood and can also cause the prostate to
produce noticeably less semen.
Again, nothing to worry about, but if you are
overweight there are many serious reasons to get
in shape... if this is the one that gets you
motivated, then great! Get to the gym and start
eating more veggies and lean protein and less
"white carbs" and saturated fats.
You'll lead a longer, healthier, more energetic
life... and you'll have better sex.
***QUESTION***
Hey Alex,
This is [...], first of all...i was kind of surpized
when you said the brain is the most powerful organ
that can turn her on and drive her wild. But i
realized, that is how it is all done. If you get
her to trust you and want you in the mind, then
you can turn her on and make her come. Also do you
need a big penis to make a your woman come, or can
you make her come just with your hands and tongue?
Also, how old do you need to be to purchase your
Book? And finally, what if your woman does not
always want you or hardly seems in the mood most
the time?
Thank you for the wonderful letters and adivce,
it has really helped me out!!
Sincerely Yours,
B.G. from IN
>>>MY REPLY:
Hey man, that's a lot of questions for one
email... but I'll do my best because the important
ones are closely related in an interesting way.
First of all, you have to be 18 to buy the
book... or, for that matter, to read this
Newsletter. I know that plenty of couples are
sexually active before they are 18, but my
lawyers don't really care so much about that!
So... YES, the brain is definitely the most
powerful sex organ in a woman's body... and if we
really want to be honest about it... it's the
most powerful in a man's body too.
Look at it this way-- it how attractive you
THINK she is that turns you on... It's all in
your HEAD when you get turned on or you're "in
the mood." And if you are nervous or have
feelings of anxiety, it can be pretty much
impossible to get an erection.
The difference is, once we're turned on, it's
USUALLY pretty easy for us to have an orgasm.
For women there is USUALLY still much more that
needs to happen in her head to make it happen.
Which leads me to the next question about
whether you need a big penis to give a girl an
orgasm...
Absolutely NOT.
First of all, lesbians usually have great sex
and lots of orgasms without any penis at all...
and contrary to what goes on in adult movies,
most real lesbian couples NEVER use a dildo. If
that's what they liked, they'd be straight. Many
lesbians find the use of that kind of sex-toy to
be insulting.
So, first of all, you don't need a penis at
all-- fingers and tongues work great.
Secondly, even a small penis can do the trick
just fine. There have been studies done where
women could not guess the size of the toy
inserted inside of them by their partner.
But...
Like I said, the important sex organ is the
brain... and that is the only place where a large
penis can make a significant difference.
There are some women who are just really turned
on by the IDEA of a huge penis. But those women
are not very common. Most want something closer
to normal (5.5 - 6.5 inches).
But there is another really important way in
which your size can really affect the quality of
her sexual experience...
Your CONFIDENCE.
Because your last question was what to do
about a woman who seems to not be in the mood
very often.
Well, a woman is in the mood when she is turned
on... So the simple key is to get her turned on.
So the obvious question we need to answer is,
what is the one thing that is most sexually
exciting to a woman... what gets her really
turned on?
The answer, according to every expert on the
planet is: Male CONFIDENCE.
See where I'm going here?
Women have very powerful senses to tell if a
man is confident or not... they are far more
intuitive about this sort of thing than men.
So if you are worried about your size... guess
what... chances are she FEELS that as a lack of
confidence... and that's a big turn off.
The key to making it so that she is in the
mood for sex all the time, is to know how to
properly SEDUCE her and GET her turned on...
even when she wasn't.
That's why when you download my online eBook,
I also include a special bonus booklet on
specifically the subject of HOW TO INITIATE SEX.
It will completely solve the problem if your
girl seems to not be in the mood a lot of the
time.
***QUESTION***
i have a question and i wonder what kind of girls
can squirt... can black females squirt ?
-J.A.
>>>MY REPLY:
Of course. People are people. Other than the
color of our skin, there is no difference at all
between blacks, whites, asians, etc.
Let's dig a little deeper... Can ANY woman
squirt?
Well, technically the answer must be, "yes",
because every woman has the anatomy to squirt.
Which is to say, all women are born with the
glands to produce female ejaculation.
However... the SIZE of these glands is very
different from woman to woman, and, just like the
size of breasts, it's not related to body size at
all.
So some women will ejaculate much LESS than
others-- it can be anything from just a little
dribble to a big, gushing spray.
However, even though all women have the body
parts to ejaculate, unfortunately VERY FEW women
will ever actually experience this amazing type
of orgasm in their lifetime.
If you want to learn EXACTLY how to make it
happen for your woman, step-by-step, check out the
info here:
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