Let me give you a warning in advance about the
material in this Newsletter:
I am NOT responsible if your neighbors
complain about the noise.
I talk a lot in these Newsletters about how
guys can become great in bed... but let me turn
this around for a minute...
What makes a WOMAN great in bed?
If you said: "She gives great head," I'm sure
you're not alone, and I'm sure there are a lot of
other answers along similar themes of what she
does "technically" well.
But at the end of the day, I think what most
men think of as "great in bed" comes down to
The main thing most guys DON'T like is a
girl who just lays there like a starfish.
You want a girl who gets INTO it. Who digs
what you are doing, and lets you know by making
a lot of sexy noises.
I sometimes hear guys complaining about some
girl that they were with, and how she just laid
there like she was bored...
Let me let you in on a secret. Whenever I hear
a guy say something like that, I can't help but
Maybe that's because she WAS bored?
See, a woman once asked me, very directly, if
I was any good in bed.
Now, what I DIDN'T tell her was, "baby, I wrote
a book on the subject, come home with me and I'm
gonna rock your world."
First of all, that would have been a dumb-ass
thing to say, and women hate guys that brag about
any of their accomplishments or possessions... it
just makes you look incredibly insecure...
But also, I didn't say that because it's not
See, I really believe that "skills and
techniques" are fine, but truly great sex comes
It takes two.
So, I'm thinking when those guys said the girl
was just lying there looking bored, well, maybe
it wasn't the girl's fault at all.
It takes two.
Now, personally, I really, really like it when
a girl totally loses control of herself from
coming so hard, that she just screams her head
That's MY idea of a woman who is good in bed.
But, let's face it, unless she's faking it,
that means that for her to be good in bed for me...
I've got to be good in bed for her.
Now, if you are fairly experienced in the
bedroom, you might be saying to yourself right
now, "wait a minute, Alex, some girls are just
shy-- they don't make a lot of noise no matter
how hard they come."
Yeah, I know the type-- the girls that just
breath harder and faster when they have an orgasm,
but, for one reason or another, they don't "let it
out" and get their scream on.
Well, I make them scream. And you can too.
Here's the thing, when a girl is not screaming
she is holding herself back.
And even though she may think she's really
getting off and that she doesn't need to make noise
to prove it... the truth is, because she is holding
herself back, she is probably NOT experiencing
orgasms that are anywhere near as powerful as she
is capable of.
In fact, she may not be experiencing a true
orgasm at all.
I have been with women who THOUGHT that they
had orgasms, but really, they were just feeling
a lot of sexual excitement, which felt really
good, and so they figured, hmm... that must be
what orgasms feel like.
It didn't occur to them that maybe there was
something else, something bigger, that they were
It wasn't until I had actually brought them
over the edge that they realized, "Oh my God, so
THAT'S what an orgasm feels like!"
They didn't even realize what they were
The interesting thing is, for many of these
girls who had their first orgasm with me, it
wasn't a technique or lasting longer, or anything
like that that made the difference.
It was the act of screaming itself that caused
most of them to have their first orgasm.
Okay, it wasn't the screaming that was DIRECTLY
doing it. It was the act of letting themselves go
enough... it was allowing themselves to relax and
just let it out... it was the release of their
inhibitions to make noise...
...that simultaneously released their
inhibitions to fully experience an orgasm unlike
anything they had experienced before.
In way, having a screaming orgasm is a self-
perpetuating cycle for a woman. It's a feedback
Allowing themselves to scream makes them come
harder... much harder... which makes them scream
their heads off... which makes them come harder...
You get the idea.
Unfortunately, you can't get this great
result by just saying to a girl, "okay, I'd like
you to scream now while we are having sex."
Doesn't work like that.
The reality is that, in order to get her to
let go-- I mean really let go and be completely
un-selfconscious about it-- you are going to have
to get her comfortable enough to surrender over
her body... to YOU.
This is a very big deal. And it is why sex
is (or can be when it's truly amazing) so
incredibly intimate for women.
Women can't give this incredible experience to
themselves. They can only achieve these heights
with a lover-- somebody who they can surrender
It's hard for guys to wrap their brains around,
and I've tried to explain it many different ways.
Maybe this example will resonate--
Have you ever done something with a buddy that
you would have been afraid to do alone?
Like, maybe you went someplace that you knew
was really dangerous-- and if you were on your
own, you wouldn't have had the guts to go... and
if he was on his own, he wouldn't have had the
guts either-- but together, even though it was
still every bit as dangerous, you had the
confidence to do it because you knew your pal had
Well, it's not a perfect example, but maybe it
helps you get the idea.
She can't go to this place that "feels"
dangerous to her all by herself. In fact, she
can't make the decision to go there-- she needs
you to take her by the hand and guide her.
Never forget that this kind of intimacy and
extreme pleasure can be scary for her. So
anything you can do to put her at ease is going
to go a long way.
I think it's a good idea to start with MUSIC.
It's a simple tip, but a good one.
Playing music serves two very important roles
in this situation--
The first is that if you play it reasonably
loud, it gives her some cover for the noise that
she is making. It takes more surrender to make
noise in a silent room than a loud one. It lets
her experiment with making more noise without the
The second reason is that music affects our
emotions-- and it especially affects women's
emotions. And it is through her emotions that
she will eventually reach the point of trust
and intimacy to release herself.
What music should you play?
This is important: Play the music that SHE
wants to hear. What YOU think it sexy music is
all well and good, but right now we are working
on HER feelings.
Once you've got the music going, the next step
is to get her to add her voice to the music.
If she's already doing some heavy breathing
and making small noises, the next thing to do, as
weird as this sounds, is-- Give her something to
In fact, I'm going to be very specific. Tell
her to say your name.
This isn't for everyone and it's not a 100%
thing, but it can work very well.
The idea is to make her engage her vocal cords
when she is at the height of her excitement or
when she is actually having an orgasm.
Tell her to say your name, out loud, as she is
coming, and she might very well involuntarily
SCREAM your name.
Now there is another psychological/emotional
reason for having her say your name, rather than
shouting out, say, "Hallelujah!"
For one thing, it is an intimacy builder. It
is a nice, bonding thing for her to associate you
and the sound of your name coming out of her own
mouth, to her most profound pleasure.
The other reason is that it gets her out of
her "self" and into thoughts of "you" which will
help her to reach the point of surrender that I
was talking about earlier.
For a woman to reach her most amazing peak of
pleasure, she will have to make it "your fault."
She will not go there from her own permission.
So putting your name into her thoughts at that
moment sometimes does the trick.
Okay, now we are going to move into some
slightly more advanced territory.
One of the most powerful ways to get her to
release her inner banshee is to completely
eliminate any hint of your own sexual shyness.
Look, it's not your fault, and nobody is
completely free of any insecurities, so this can
be more difficult than it sounds.
Women have very strong intuition, and they sense
when we are uncomfortable.
But let's face the facts-- if you want her to be
completely uninhibited in bed, it is asking an
awful lot if you are coming to bed with a bunch of
your own insecurities.
Anything you do that tips her off to the fact
that you are not feeling 100% comfortable and in
control of the situation is going to work against
What kinds of things will tip her off?
Nervous laughter, any kind of defensive or
angry remarks towards her if anything goes
differently than you expected, and any feelings
of frustration are a few...
But the bigger ones are any time you try to
do something to make yourself look "cool" or say
something to brag.
This kind of thing is a big tip-off for women
that you are insecure.
The most secure and powerful thing you can do
in the bedroom is to be authentic.
And the other big one is to express passion
Very few men have the confidence it takes to
show their true passion and really lose themselves
in the act of making love. Those that do win
instant trust and passion in return.
You can't fake this kind of thing.
Authenticity is everything.
Because in the end, what you are trying to do
is win her sexual trust.
When she sees that you are coming to her with
your guard down and all of your filters turned off,
her body will respond to you in ways that you
It takes only one thing to be really authentic
with a woman:
If you follow these simple steps, it should not
take long before your previously shy woman is
screaming her head off, waking up the neighbors,
and begging you for more.
Quick warning-- some women like to scream
"please stop," or "No, no, I can't take any more,"
and stuff of that nature. This can often result
in overly concerned neighbors calling the police.
You might want to tell her to shout out your
name instead. "Oh my God" is also okay.
And, as I mentioned, this is a pretty good tip
for giving a woman who has never experienced an
orgasm, her very first one.
Of course, there is sometimes much more to it
than that... but the issue is definitely related.
If you feel like you are ready to learn the
really advanced ideas and techniques for totally
mastering a woman's sexuality, and becoming the
kind of lover that women BRAG about, then it
may be time to take the next step.
Not every guy is going to ever get there--
in fact, almost by definition, most won't.
Ask any woman, and she'll tell you-- most men
are clueless in bed, even though THEY think they
have it all figured out.
The reason is because most guys are too proud
to ask for help. If they're not good, they'd
rather not know than have to actually listen to
somebody else that might know more.
The cool thing is that since you are one of the
very few men in the world who is reading this
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take the steps at becoming better.
My guess is that this quality has already
served you well in the past.
Guys who are willing to get help to work on
improving themSELVES are usually among the most
successful in every area.
Kind of obvious why that is.
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