Have you ever wondered what SHE's thinking when
you come too soon?

   I mean... what EXACTLY is going on in her head
when you come way before she does, or when you just
don't last long enough to please her?

   The answer to this question is really going to
surprise you...

   Over the last couple of months I've written
about a half a dozen Newsletters with great tips
on exactly how to last longer in bed.

   Every one of them WORKS... though many of them
require some work on your part first-- as many
things in life take some practice before you get
really good at them.

   But I still get a lot of emails asking me how
guys can last longer-- sometimes RIGHT AFTER I
SEND OUT A TIP ON EXACTLY THAT SUBJECT.

   I was thinking about this, and I realized that
I've been leaving out some important information
that I think will really help any guy understand
his own issues with how long he can keep it up...

   And it involves getting a much better
understanding of the way women see this problem...
exactly what's going on inside her head... and
how you can completely change EVERYTHING in this
situation by dealing with HER MIND FIRST.

   We know what goes on in the guy's mind... I
mean, when it's clear that you've disappointed her
or when you come so fast that it's just feels
un-manly.

   It's so embarrassing, and it makes you think
about whether she's comparing you to some past
lover who could just go and go and go for as long
as she could stand it... 

   Or if she's comparing notes with her friends...
because women talk... and every woman has at least
one girlfriend who is dating a guy who can go for
"hours".

   It can make you feel really inadequate.  It can
make you insecure.  It can give you an inferiority
complex.  It can make you fear that you might lose
her to a man who can give her what she needs.

   And having that kind of crap in your head
really, really hurts.

   I'm going to help you to fix ALL of this in
this newsletter.

   Look, the simple truth is that some guys can
just naturally last longer than others.  In fact,
I've talked to many guys who say they have real
trouble managing to come at all.  They actually
have to work hard at it, and often just CAN'T
seem to ejaculate during sex. 

   And other guys just have TOTAL control-- they
can last as long as they want, and they can come
pretty much any time they want... they have as
much control over their ejaculation as other men
have over parallel parking a car.


   But let's just begin with the fact that you
don't yet have that kind of control, and you are
not lasting as long as you'd like... and get back
to my original question:

   What's SHE thinking?

   Let's start with the obvious-- if you come in
under 30 seconds and then immediately look like
a kid who just wet his pants in front of the class
and begin apologizing...

   Then you have TOLD her exactly what to think.

   You have told her that you are an inadequate
lover... that you have problems controlling your
body... that there is a chance that you won't be
able to ever fully satisfy her... that you lack
any sexual confidence...

   It will be hard for her not be disappointed.

   But more than that, she is now in the absurdly
awkward position of having to comfort YOU.  She
has to play mommy.  She has to deal with this
awkward situation...

   And REALLY, not getting sexually satisfied is
not great for a woman... but having to deal with an
awkward situation RIGHT AFTER she was turned on,
allowed this guy to get into her pants, hoping for
something really hot... or at least something
nice...

   That's a nightmare for her.

   But... IT DIDN'T HAVE TO BE THAT WAY.

   Read this next little story carefully because
it's very important:

   She is at home waiting for her man to get back
from work...

   He calls her before he leaves, tells her that
he's been thinking about her body, about the way
she feels, about the way she smells... he tells
her that he's had a hard-on for the past hour just
imagining what he's going to do to her when he
gets home.

   Then he sends her a text message and tells her
EXACTLY what she should be wearing when he gets
home.  He tells her to wear something sexy,
something that he's going to tear off of her...

   He tells her to get ready for him because he's
aching for her body.

   From the car he calls her again... he starts
describing exactly what he's fantasizing about. 
He tells her that she better be ready for him and
then hangs up the phone.

   All this time the sexual energy is building
in her mind.  She puts on the outfit that he
described and she's practically giving herself an
orgasm just from the touch of the fabric by now...

   He comes through the door... she starts to say,
"hello," but, without a word, he pushes her
against the wall and starts kissing her... it's
too fast... she can't catch her breath... so she
starts to push him away, but he's insistent, he
keeps kissing her and then starts tearing off
her clothing and kissing her body.

   He takes her right there against the wall,
thrusting like a madman inside of her, and it's
all fiery passion and wild heat, and he explodes
inside of her in less than 30 seconds...

   They collapse to the floor in each other's arms
and he kisses her gently on the face and hair, he
smiles sweetly at her and softly growls in her
ear that she's a good girl, that she's sexy, that
he needed her body so badly...

   Now... what's THIS girl thinking?

   Tell you what, why not read that bit to one
of your female friends and find out exactly what
she thinks.

   I'm willing to bed that she's going to tell
you that this little story was really HOT and that
she'd love it if her boyfriend did that to her.

   Now, I understand that while almost EVERY
woman would find this kind of passionate, but
fast sex extremely hot,no woman wants that kind
of sex every time... I mean sometimes she does
want you to last a good long time...

   But the important point here is that you've
just read 2 situations where a guy came in 30
seconds-- the first one was a humiliating disaster
and the second one was really hot...

   And it's really, really important that you
understand WHY.

   In understanding why, you will see that you
have a lot of control over what she is thinking
when you come too quickly.  And that by controlling
what she is thinking, you can dramatically change
what the situation means to her.

   And consider this:

   Probably the woman in my little story
here had a ear-splitting orgasm... in under 30
seconds... because passion is about the strongest
way to flip her switches that there is... much
stronger than some clinical technique that you
use on her step-by-step.

   And here's the really important bit--

   Getting control of what the emotional meaning
of the situation is, is going to make it MUCH
easier for you to learn how to last longer...
because it will take the PRESSURE off of you.

   The pressure, the feelings of inadequacy, the
worry that it will happen again, the feeling that
you are powerless... these are HUGE roadblocks in
your brain to achieving success in learning to
control your ejaculation.

   Not to mention huge roadblocks to your personal
confidence and happiness.

   So look, a woman might think any one of a
thousand things when you come too soon... from
mild disappointment, to "gee, I hope he's ready
to bust out the oral skills right now!" to "That
was hot... hope he last longer in round 2," to...
Oh my God, this is the most awkward and
uncomfortable situation of my life."

   And what you do and say... and what your
feelings and attitudes are in that moment will
determine which one of these things she thinks.

   If you smile, stroke her hair and growl at her
that she's just too damn sexy for her own good and
made you totally lose control like a 14-year-old
because she's just so damn hot...

   Well, you just turned it into a good experience
for her.  Instead of "awkward" it has just become
"flattering."

   And listen up:

   YES... you should use those EXACT WORDS if
you're not sure what to say.  I want you to see
how much you can change the situation with your
attitude.

   I want you to see how much more important
emotions are than physical actions when it comes
to making love to a woman.

   This will really change things in your BRAIN.

   And now, the most important point you NEED
TO LEARN from this Newsletter:

   Your problem with premature ejaculation is not
in your penis... IT IS IN YOUR BRAIN.

   Yes, it is your BRAIN that controls when you
come, not your dick.

   Just like it is your brain that learns how
to parallel park a car... not your arm muscles
learning how to turn the steering wheel.

   That is why this concept of taking control of
the emotional outcome of your premature
ejaculation is so incredibly important to your
success in MASTERING this problem once and for
all.

   Like I said... while just about every woman
is going to think that my little story about
getting it up against the wall is really hot...
no woman wants it that way every time.

   So, of course, you are still going to have
to learn to last longer.

   This will make it tons easier, and way more
pleasant in the process.

   If you are in a relationship, be calm, confident,
and absolutely unapologetic or frustrated as you
work through this issue. 

   Just tell her confidently that you will master
it, and make sure you give her plenty of
orgasms orally and with  your fingers, and be
open, honest, and authentic with her.  That will
make her feel like she is with a real man who is
not afraid of her...

   And it will make YOU feel the confidence you need
to beat this thing...

   And then start actually doing the WORK to
learn the simple techniques in for dealing with this issue
once and for all...

   The best information available...

   The very best tips and techniques...

   The ones that have worked for thousands of men
before you, and will absolutely work for YOU too...

   ...Are all right here...

  Stop Premature Ejaculation