Well, this is a subject that makes me 
cringe when I even think about it.  But it's a very
important one to understand and deal with.
    I'm going to share a couple of simple, but
very powerful ideas with you that should help you
completely eliminate this issue from your life once
and for all.
    There is not a guy in the world who has
never had a problem "getting it up" at least a 
few times in his life... and any guy that tells you
otherwise is lying.
    It can strike any time, and like some kind
of cruel joke, it usually decides to happen when 
you are with a woman that you are REALLY attracted
to or when the stakes are really high for you and
you really want to impress her.
    Doh!
    And maybe the worst part is...
    If it happens once, it has this nasty habit
of happening again... because the very next time 
you are in bed with a woman (or the same woman),
all you can think about is... "damn! I sure hope
that doesn't happen again!"
    And that's pretty much the surest way to
make it happen again... or NOT happen might be a
better way to put it.
    So maybe you try fantasizing about something
that you KNOW has worked in the past-- maybe some
other girl or situation, or even something from a 
website that got you off recently.
    A  lot of guys go that route, and you know
that it usually doesn't work so well.  It's just 
one more train of thought that interferes with
getting into what you are doing here and now.
    And if she says or does anything that 
interrupts your fantasy, it takes you right back
to where you were before.
    Or maybe you've been in the situation where
everything seems good to go, you get good and hard,
and then something interrupts the flow...
    ...like, say, putting on a condom...
    ...and suddenly, the game is off.
    Ug.
    I wish I didn't have such vivid pictures of
it in my own head, but like I said, EVERYONE'S been
there.
    And listen carefully now:  Don't ever use
this as an excuse to go without protection.  That's 
just stupid.  You need to learn a better way.
    Thankfully, I never have this particular
problem any more.  I've learned a lot of great 
techniques for dealing with it, and I'm going to
share a few of the best ones right here in this
newsletter.
    First off, I guess I should mention for the
sake of honesty and accuracy, that the various
pills that are available from your doctor, that I 
won't mention by name (though the most popular one
starts with a "V"), all work very well.
    But I don't recommend you go that route.
    You can... but remember that then you'll 
become dependent on them as a crutch whenever you
want to get things going... 
    That can get expensive.  And it can kill 
the spontaneous moment when you want to do it 
RIGHT NOW.  
    For some guys it is very helpful to get
over the initial hurdle... but for other guys it
makes the situation worse because, psychologically
they feel they really NEED the pills, and it stops
them from every doing it the "normal" way.
    I don't know your particular situation, but
I promise you, if you can get hard when you do it 
alone, then you don't have a medical condition and
you definitely do NOT need those pills.
    So let's begin at the beginning:
    >>The Problem Is In Your Head
    This the most important thing to remember
here.  It is in YOUR head, and if it is in your
head then YOU can fix it.
    Let me go back and mention again that I
am assuming that you CAN get it up when you are
alone.  If this is NOT the case, then the problem
could, in fact, be physical, and you need to talk
to your doctor about it as soon as possible as it 
might indicate a more serious problem.
    Okay, so if you're still with me, then the
problem, we agree, is in your head.
    And that's a good thing, because your head
is something that you can learn to control.
    I read quite a few books and articles on 
the subject of performance anxiety, and how it 
was related to stress, and all of these other 
factors, and all of these exercises to help you 
get over it...
    And none of it really worked that well for
me.
    Most of the time, I'd be okay, but then 
once in a while I'd have a little "problem" and 
the next thing I knew, I'd be in a cycle of having
that little problem, because it made me more and 
more nervous that it would happen again.
    Well, believe it or not, I found the seed 
of the answer in Eastern Philosophy.
    >>Quiet The Chattering Monkey Mind
    That's what the Zen masters and Yoga gurus
call it...
    You know, when you just can't shut your 
brain off... like when you can't fall asleep at 
night because of all of these thoughts swirling 
around in your head that just won't shut up...
    Or when you are in bed with a beautiful 
and you've got all of these other thoughts running
through your mind...
    ...what about what's going on at work...
    ...am I going for it too soon...
    ...what if she thinks I'm lame in bed...
    ...what if she thinks my dick is too small...
    ...I wonder what she's thinking right now...
    ...What if I can't get it up again...
    ...Has she noticed yet that I'm not hard...
    That, my friend, is the Chattering Monkey
Mind.
    And it is any wonder, with all of that crap
running around in your head, that you can't focus
on what you are doing?  That you can't get into
it?
    The bottom line is that you need to learn
how to quiet this chattering monkey.  It is doing
you no good at all... and it is hurting you in the
bedroom.
    Worse, it is probably hurting you in other
areas of your life too... this is just the one 
that you may be aware of.
    Becoming aware that this is the problem-- 
and believe it or not, this really is very likely
the ONLY problem that you have with getting it up--
is the first step to solving it for good.
    And what's more, I absolutely guarantee
that if you can quiet these intrusive voices in
your mind, you will never have this problem, ever
again.
    So, now it's just a matter of learning
that control.
    If you want WAY more information on 
this, and learn to understand "becoming present"
while you are making love to a woman, I explain
this powerful technique for eliminating performance
problems starting on page 16 of my eBook. You
can read it now, right here 
    Or, if you prefer, and if you really
have a serious problem with this and you've
really been struggling with it, I strongly
recommend that you take up... meditation.
    That's what all those Zen Masters and Yoga
Gurus do to quiet their Chattering Monkey Minds--
and it works.
    Take a class or get a book, and start a 
meditation practice in you life. 
    Aside from the many benefits to your stress
level and brain function, it TEACHES you to control
your mind.  And that is a very, very useful thing
to learn.
    But okay, I know you are thinking you want
something you can use RIGHT NOW...
    Don't worry.  I'm not gonna let you down.
    >>Say Something
    This is a really great way of eliminating 
one of the loudest chattering monkeys that most 
guys deal with.
    I've found that MOST guys who have had
problems in this area say that the thing that worries
them the most, the one that really loops around in
their head, is: "I wonder what she is thinking right
now... I wonder if she has noticed that I'm not
hard."
    Because this is the worst of the chattering
monkeys for most guys, it is the one that creates 
the biggest problem for getting "into it" and 
getting hard.
    So, first, let me give you the answer...
yes, she has noticed that you are not hard.
    But the good news is that she is NOT 
thinking that you are a loser because you can't
get it  up... she's thinking that SHE is a loser.
    Yep.  You heard me right.
    Because, you see, women are just as messed
up and insecure as we are.  Maybe even more. 
    And what she's thinking is... "oh my God,
he's not into me.  He doesn't like my body now that 
he sees me naked... I'm doing something wrong... 
Maybe I smell bad... he thinks my breasts look
weird."
    Here's another thing she's thinking: "oh no,
not again."
    Because unless she is a virgin, she has 
experienced this situation before with other men...
because, like I said, it happens to all men from
time to time.  So it's not like you are the first
guy she has ever been with where this happened.
    The bottom line is... IT'S NO BIG DEAL...
    If you just SAY something to her about
it.
    Instead of wondering what she is thinking 
while she is wondering what you are thinking... 
    Just TELL her what to think.
    Tell her something like, "don't worry, just
a little stress at work.  Sometimes it takes me 
a little longer.  It's not you at all.  I'm
very attracted to you, and if you are a little bit
patient, everything will be working fine in just
a few minutes... and if not, I promise, I'll take
good care of you either way."
    She will be so relieved and pleased that 
you were man enough to say something that she will
become as happy as a kitten with manual and oral
sex, and it takes the pressure off of you, so you 
can just enjoy yourself.
    And then just do that... enjoy yourself.
    Enjoy touching her and having her touch 
you.  And in no time, if you just stop thinking
about it, your little champ will join in on the fun.
    >> Don't Think About The Champ
    And while I'm on it... the other monkey 
that chatters in every guy's head when he's 
having trouble getting it up is... thinking about
getting it up.
    Is it hard yet?
    Is it hard yet?
    I think I feel it starting to... oh, no...
not yet... 
    Is it hard yet?
    Shut that switch OFF!
    I know, easier said than done.  But once
you reassure the girl you are with that it's 
nothing to think about, you need to take the same
advice.
    As I said above, the key is "becoming
present."  If your situation is minor, you will
find just this advice is enough to unlock the door
for you.
    But if you need more to understand "becoming 
present" then get my book, or take a class in 
meditation, or... do both.
    Okay, here's the hard sell:
    Get the book.
    Because there is way more to be an amazing
lover than just getting hard... though, let's face 
it, that's a very important start!
    But you shouldn't settle for just the 
minimum, and if she is a woman of high quality,
then she won't either.
    Learn to be the best lover that she has
ever even dared to imagine.
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    Why do I offer a free trial?
    Because I really believe that many guys
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    Learning this stuff has made such a huge
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    What is confidence like that worth?
    Man, I sure wish somebody had been around
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    I hope you enjoyed this newsletter, and I
look forward to sharing much more in future 
editions!
    Your friend,
    Alex Allman