“Keys To Creating
Sexual Chemistry”

 




    Do you know how to make her really "feel"
chemistry with you in the moment?

   Do you know why sometimes you can trigger
all of a woman's sexual feelings and emotions...
and other times all you seem to trigger are her
"let's just be friends" defensive systems?

   This is a really interesting topic because
if you're like most guys, you've probably
experienced triggering both types of reactions,
at different times... sometimes in the SAME woman.

   This can even happen in a relationship.

   You can come home from a night at a movie,
a restaurant, or out with friends, and you're in
the mood for a little fun in bed... sometimes
you can feel her connect with your sexual
chemistry, and she shivers with pleasure when you
touch her--

   But sometimes the circuit just doesn't
connect and she just wants to go to sleep.

   It would be easy to say, "well, she was
tired, she had a long day."

   Sure, that happens.  If she really got no
sleep last night and there's all sorts of stress
in her life-- there's plenty of things that can
take a woman out of "the mood."

   But MOST of the time, you'd be amazed at
how much control YOU have over whether or not
she's feeling in the mood.

   It has to do with what we sometimes call
"sexual chemistry," and when you can make her feel
that connection, any woman will very happily give up
a few hours of sleep, or just about anything else
to get you on top of her.

   These feelings and emotions... this
"chemistry" is one of the main ingredients to
incredible sex.

   When a woman talks about the best lover
she has ever been with, she pretty much NEVER says
anything about the size of his tool, how long he
lasted, or any kind of crazy, new sexual position
that she had never seen before.

   Women DO talk about things like that when
they are with their friends... but not because it
blew their minds in bed, but because it makes for
interesting conversation.

   Women, like all people, will tell a juicy
story to their friends when it involves something
new or different or, even better... when it's
"weird."

   A huge penis or a guy who lasted for two
hours is interesting because it's a bit weird.

   Maybe it was even "good" for her too, but
that's not why she told the story.

   If, on the other hand, it was the "best
sex she has ever had," she's not going to be
talking all about his size or how long he lasted
or anything like that.  Because the bigger and
more interesting detail now is "the best sex
ever."

   When a girl feels that she has had the
best sex ever, it is impossible for her not to
feel some kind of emotional connection to the
experience.  So she is LESS likely to talk
about things that would make it sound "cheap"...
like his size or stamina...

   Instead she's going to say:

   "I've never felt so much 'chemistry' with
a man before."

   And that, my friend, is exactly what you
want her to say about YOU the next morning.

   I've got some great tips right here in
this letter that, all by themselves, will
practically make you an expert in creating
sexual chemistry whenever and with whomever
you want.

   In the meantime, the keys to sexual
chemistry that I'm going to share in this
Newsletter are awesome, and you should start
using them TODAY. 

   You'll be amazed at how quickly you can get
her "sexually addicted" to you.

   So let's go back to the beginning and ask
the question again...

   You are talking to a woman and clearly
you have some intellectual chemistry-- she's
laughing at your jokes, she thinks you're
interesting, and you feel yourself getting really
powerfully physically attracted to her-- YOU
definitely want to take things to the next level.

   But does she?

   What is the secret to making her take the
jump from, "this is an interesting man," to "I
want this guy to fuck my brains out right now!"?

   ...And for you guys in relationships, let
me put the same question to you, because even if
you are married you know as well as I do that
this same exact thing occurs even after YEARS of
being together.

   You can have a great evening with your
wife, you can be having a great conversation, and
if you are in the mood for love-making, there is
still a bridge to cross between her feeling that:
"my husband is my best friend" feeling, and that
"my husband is so sexy I want him to take me
RIGHT NOW" feeling.

   One of the most important keys to making
her feel the second way is to "lead" and be
"dominant."

   I'm going to tell you exactly HOW you do
that in a way that makes her FEEL powerful
sexual chemistry, but first, let me quickly
explain the "why."

   Humans have evolved across millions of
years to very carefully select who they will have
children with.

   For a man, this decision is not a big
deal because, theoretically, a man could easily
impregnate 7 women in 7 days.  He can afford some
"trial and error" in his choice of a mate.

   But for a woman this calculation is very
different.  She can only get pregnant once every
couple of years and each time she does, especially
in the natural world, she risks death. 

   She only has so many opportunities to get
it right.  So women must be much more sexually
selective than men.

   Now of course she is not thinking about
whether or not you are good genetic stock for
mating when she is deciding whether or not she
feels sexual chemistry for you.

   She's probably not thinking about babies
at all, and very likely assumes that one or both
of you will be using birth control.

   But there IS something deep in her
unconscious that is running in the background of
her brain that is either aroused or not aroused
based exactly on these calculations.

   Here's one more piece to the equation that
is very important to why having the ability to
push her sexual chemistry buttons will make sex
with you such an amazing sexual experience for
her...

   Women are more likely to get pregnant
when they experience powerful orgasms.

   There is no evolutionary advantage to a
woman experiencing powerful orgasms with a man
who has a larger dick or who knows a special way
to use his tongue... which is why those things
are NOT what make the most incredible sex happen.

   Instead women have their most powerful
orgasms when they feel sexual chemistry, trust,
and intimacy.  Because she has all sorts of built
in instincts for feeling sexual chemistry for the
RIGHT man.

   You might hear a woman say something
like, "I want a man who knows how to be a MAN."

   Leading is what she is talking about.

   Okay, convinced yet?

   Here's HOW you can trigger all of those
things with the woman that you are with...

   "Leading" is a very interesting concept
and it can be applied almost anywhere in your
interaction with a woman in subtle and not-so-
subtle ways.

   Here are 4 areas that YOU should be
leading... each one creates the path for the next,
and "leads" her into a powerful zone of sexual
chemistry:

1) Leading In Normal Interactions And "Dancing"

   Everyone knows that guys are supposed to
lead when dancing. 

   And look, I know, most guys aren't very
good dancers and so that can sometimes be a
challenge. 

   A woman will certainly forgive you if you
are not a great dancer or can't lead.  No big deal.

   But if you CAN lead, she will feel it.  It
does create sexual tension for her.  It's not
going to turn her into a horny sex-monster, but
she'll feel it.

   If you are a great dancer and can lead
with powerful authority, she'll feel it more
strongly.

   Personally, I'm not that great a dancer,
but fortunately the world is filled with
other normal opportunities for you to lead.

   When you hold the door open for her, you
are leading the path to where you are going
together.

   Likewise, when you take her arm are while
walking, instead of waiting for her to offer hers...

   When you pull out her chair for her to
sit-- you are helping her and being nice-- but
also there is a subtle command behind the gesture:
"You sit here."

   Leading in conversation is an art.

   Interrupting and being an jerk is not
the way it is done.  But being aware that you are
gently leading the threads of what you are
discussing is much more powerful than you might
think.

   "What would you like to talk about?" is,
at best, incredibly irritating to a woman.

   Instead, "tell me what you think about
_____?" is much better. 

   (The blank is where you fill in what YOU
want to talk about).

   The main thing you need to know for now is
that you can definitely lead in conversation while
still being a good listener. In fact, you don't even
have to do most of the talking.

   Another great place to show her the lead
is in decisions that you make together.

   "Where would you like to eat tonight?" or
"What movie would you like to see?" are also
questions that tend to put women into an irritated
mood... often with them not realizing why.

   Instead, just pick a place and tell her
"I've got a great idea, let's go to _____."

   Now, if she's really not in the mood or
has a craving to go elsewhere you don't need to
fight about it to show that you are leading or that
you are "the man".  In fact, the opposite is true.

   All you need to do is show that you are
decisive and can make a quick and authoritative
decision.  After that, you can be as flexible and
and sweet to her as you like.  Likewise with the
choice of a movie.

   Very feminine women might not want to
present a second option... don't get trapped into
"alright, then what movie would YOU like to see?"

   Instead, just offer her another option.

   If she chooses a movie you are not
interested in, tell her so.  But if she chooses
one that you DO like, don't worry, that's fine. 

   Part of leading is not having to PROVE that
you're leading all the time.

   You never need to push her around, be a
jerk, or a bully.  Leading and being dominant is
a subtle thing that rises from male confidence and
your ease with masculine identity.


2)  Eye Contact

   Eye contact can be a powerful way to lead
and show dominance. 

   Becoming aware of this, rather than
allowing it to happen randomly can have powerful
effects on your relationships with women.

   When you look at a woman and your eyes
flit around nervously, she does not "notice" this
fact... but she DOES "feel" it.

   Instead, hold your gaze on her eyes.

   You will find that she will lock onto
your eyes in return.

   Now the key is not to look away until she
does... and if you DO look away (sometimes women
get locked into your gaze so powerfully that they
CAN'T look away), then shift your eyes upwards or
to the side, never down).

   Shifting your eyes downward after eye
contact is submissive.  She won't "notice" this
but she will "feel" it.

   You will notice as you become aware of
this stuff, that when a woman is feeling attracted
to you, she will either hold your gaze or glance
downwards... usually both.

   Don't get into a creepy staring contest
with her.  Smile, and look to the side if it's
getting weird, and then back into her eyes. 

   Here's an important caution however, let
these meetings of the eyes be casual, not
constant. 

   Always staring at her eyes, trying to get
her to make eye contact with you, after a while,
will feel like you are trying to hard to get her
attention... rather than her wanting your
attention... and THAT is not leading.

3) Touch Her

   There is a delicate and subtle dance to
touching.

   As you are moving from conversation to
eye contact to touching and ultimately to sex,
touch increases slowly and steadily, and from
casual to more intimate.

   Learning how to pace this escalation takes
some time and paying attention to her reaction.

   There is a psychological bridge to cross
between touching her hand and touching her face
or her inner thighs or her breasts...

   You don't want to rush across, obviously,
but being too timid to cross is worse.  When the
time is right, increase the intimacy of your
touch.

   This shows that you are unafraid to LEAD
the interaction towards one that is more sexual.

   Make your touch confident, relaxed, and
assured.

   This creates magic sexual chemistry.


4)  Leading Sexually

   Well, if you've been following along so
far, we've gone from holding doors for her to
touching her breasts...

   So really, we are in the realm of sex
now.  And to stop using a confident, leading
dominance at this point, would be cheating her
out of the prize.

   You have gotten her feeling sexual
attraction without her necessarily knowing why.
What you do with it next will determine whether
she talks about the "sexual chemistry" she felt
with you tomorrow.

   When you are making love to a woman, it
is very important to not be tentative or shy.

   Of course there are women who like this
and think it's "cute."  But they will have a
much more powerful experience with you if you
are confident in your lead.

   I guess I'll also have to make exceptions
for women who are sexually dominant, but they
exist more in fetish videos than reality.  It
might be a funny game for her to play to be dominant
once in a while with her lover... but very,
very few women prefer to be dominant in bed.

   Lead. 

   Touch her with confidence and don't wait
for her approval for every little thing you do.

   You should either tell her what you want
her to do, or you should move her physically into
the positions you want her in.

   Of course, you want to do the things that
feel good for her too... but you don't do that
by asking her what to do next... you do it by
trying the things that please you and PAYING
ATTENTION to what is working for her too.


   After learning "leading and dominance,"
the next big step to creating sexual chemistry
with a girl is learning how to create "trust
and intimacy."

   This is a HUGE and incredibly important
topic for making her feel like there is a nearly
magical sexual connection between the two of  you.

   In this sense the "trust" I'm talking
about is "sexual trust." 

   It is not the same as trusting you to not
cheat or trusting you to never lie or to always
protect her (though these qualities of trust can
also be very attractive to a woman).

   Sexual trust is about her trusting you to
guide her safely through powerful sexual
experiences.

   I like to use the analogy of an airplane
pilot.  If you are getting onto an airplane, would
you trust a pilot who has never told a lie or a
pilot who has massive knowledge and experience
with landing planes in the worst possible weather
conditions?

   Sexual trust is a big topic, obviously,
and it is the root of the emotional intimacy that
women attach to mind-blowing orgasms.

   For a woman, those orgasms are very
much like landing a plane during a hurricane.

   And the fact is, YOU can learn to be the
kind of man that she will trust to pilot her
through that experience.

   This is the ultimate form of "sexual
chemistry" and it is the psychological magic that
allows her to achieve orgasms that most women
can't even imagine, and far fewer ever experience.

   Can you learn to do it? 

   I guarantee it.

   All you have to do is download your copy
of my online eBook and start reading it right now
from your own computer.

   Plus, you don't pay anything up front.

   Take your time and spend a few days
going through the whole book.  Then, what I'd
really like you to do is, try out a few of the
things in the book with a woman...

   If you don't think that this is unlike
ANY other sex advice you've seen or read, and if
you don't immediately see an amazing change in
the way you can give her sexual pleasure, then
just don't pay.

   It's that simple. 

   Of course, I do expect that you will have
mind blowing results and you will be more than
happy to pay the very low price for this high-
value information.

   Frankly, I think I could charge way more
for the way this simple information can completely
change a guy's life...

   But I honestly believe it's worth it to
try to get more guys to learn this stuff. 

   The fact is, most guys are too shy or
embarrassed to even take the step of asking for
information.

   And that's a shame.  Because if they had
a little guts, they could be leading a much
richer sex life, satisfying women in ways they
never dreamed of, and forging far more powerful
emotional relationships.

   Don't be that timid guy.  Learn how to
be the man that can land that plane for her. 

   Take a chance on yourself and check it
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   And I'll talk to you again soon.