Secrets To Keeping Monogamy Hot


   Have you ever been in bed with your wife or
your girlfriend and felt like the spark was gone?

   Have you ever been afraid that if you kept
on losing attraction for her, you might end up
being nothing more than friends... and wondered
if you would end up having to break her heart?

   Let's cut to the chase...

   Have you ever made love to a woman you were
in love with... while fantasizing about being with
another woman in order to stay hard?

   Let's get real.  Of course you have.

   Let me ask you this:  Have you ever lost a
relationship because the sex got stale?

   There's an old truth about living as a couple
that says "the fight is never about what the
fight is about."

   That's the way it is when the sex becomes
boring and you both start thinking about how it
might be with someone new...

   You start fighting about how the money is
spent, or you fight about who should clean the
dishes, or about what you want to do over the
weekend.

   Remember when the sex was red-hot and you never
fought over any of that crap?

   Look, I'm not trying to panic you here, and of
course, sometimes couples legitimately DO fight
about the money or whatever... it's just that
sometimes it's a convenient excuse because you
are not as HAPPY as you used to be.

   Great sex is the soil and the sunlight for
growing passionate and loving relationships.

   Look, most of us never really got any education
at all on how to have great sex.  But even more...
nobody ever educated us on how to KEEP sex great.

   After a long period of monogamy, promiscuity
can look very, very tempting.

   So what's the truth here? 

   Can intimacy be better than novelty over the
long haul?

   Yes.

   I guess it would be fair to say, "not for
everyone," but the great news is that there are
things you can LEARN that can keep the sex with
the woman you are in love with hotter than anything
you could experience from the thrill of "new sex."

   Before I sat down to write this Newsletter I
did a little research and read some of the stuff
that other people were writing on the subject of
"keeping it hot."

   It's a big "marriage issue" and a large number
of therapists, counselors, and journalists have
written about the subject in everything from
serious-minded books to an endless stream of
"women's magazine" articles on the subject.

   Every one of them that I saw seemed to
recommend that the way to bring the spark back
was to get more "kinky."

   In other words, they were saying that the way
to get it hot was to do something "new" so that
you'd get that "new sex" feeling back... share
your fantasies, tie each other up, new positions,
new oral sex tricks, dressing up, etc.

   Well, that's all well and fun... but... what
next?

   What do you do when tying her up gets boring?
Whip her?

   What about when that gets boring?

   How far can you go?  How many new, weird things
can you come up with? 

   And WHY would you WANT TO?

   Look, there is nothing wrong with sharing
fantasies or trying out kinky things if that's
fun for you... I'm all for it.

   But it has NOTHING to do with how and why to
keep sex hot in a loving, monogamous relationship.

   What DOES work is increasing and really
learning to enjoy the sexual POWER of intimacy.

   Here's what happens to most couples--

   In the beginning the sex is hot because of
the animal desire we feel for each other.  We're
attracted to each other and it's new and our
genetics are programmed to want to get into bed
every opportunity we get.

   But as we get closer and more intimate, we
begin getting all those cozy, snuggling, love-
feelings... and that's great, that feels
wonderful...

   But it's not really... HOT. 

   And as the animal desire wears off, we are
left with less sexual passion.  Sure, in it's
place might be great friendship and great trust,
and great love-emotions... but is that SEXY?

   Usually not.

   Sexual ATTRACTION is not made of friendship
and trust. 

   So why is it that some couples remain hot for
each other over years and years? 

   Well, I've actually got a huge amount to write
on this subject, but for now I want to get you
started with some tips you can use RIGHT NOW to
keep your relationship on track or even turn it
completely around if it's already getting stale.

>>> MAKE HER MORE BEAUTIFUL <<<

   What if every day that you knew your woman she
got a little bit better looking?  What if, instead
of getting bored with the way she looked, you got
more and more attracted to her?

   Well, it's possible.

   At first this may sound a little bit weird or
"out there," but I promise you that if you try
this technique for only 2 WEEKS you will see an
amazing difference in your attraction to your
girl.

   Here's how...

   Tell her, out loud, as often as possible,
that she is beautiful.  Whenever possible,
single out your favorite parts of her... the
parts that really do turn you on (her hair,
her hips, her eyes, her lips, her legs, etc.),
and tell how beautiful and sexy those parts are.

   Here's why...

   First of all, you have to understand this
important principle: 

   *Your Words Have Power*

   When you say something out loud it adds to
your own belief and conviction of the thing you
say.  The more you say it, the more you believe
it.

   There's hard science behind this.  Part of it
is rooted in the science of Neuro Linguistic
Programming (NLP), and part of it is based on the
one of the principles of psychological influence
pioneered by the brilliant psychologist, Robert
Cialdini, that he called "Commitment and
Consistency."

   Without going into all of the details, the
fact is, when you say something out loud,
especially when you say it to other people, your
brain starts to "re-wire" itself to rationalize
and prove the truth of what you have said.

   When you tell your woman that she is beautiful,
and you tell her often, it actually does affect
way you see her.

   If you are thinking, "I don't have to tell her,
she knows I think she is beautiful," ...man, you
are missing the point entirely. 

   Say it out loud.  I promise it is different
than just "knowing" it.

   If you just keep telling her (and everyone
else that you know) that she is the most beautiful
woman you have ever seen, you will feel it more
strongly every day.

   And now here is the really crazy part...

   She actually WILL become more beautiful.

   It's a fact:

   Women blossom under positive reinforcement.

   When you tell her that you love her hair, she
will like it hearing it.  And so she will spend
more time making it beautiful for YOU.  She will
buy some special girl stuff to make it shinier and
healthier. 

   When you tell her you love her ass, she'll be
in the gym working those butt exercises because
she will enjoy your attention.

   And when she feels loved and cared for and
beautiful, she will radiate a happy sexiness that
you might not have seen in her since she was a
teenager.

   Doubt me?

   Try it for 2 weeks. 

   I guarantee that if you stop telling her that
she needs to eat less ice-cream and start telling
her that you think her body is sexy, she will
leave the ice-cream alone all by herself. 

   She will enjoy being sexy for you.  She'll
make herself more beautiful in every way.

   As I always say... I don't like to argue too
much with what works. 

   This WORKS.


>>> BE A MAN <<<

   Here's a difficult truth about slowly losing
attraction for your woman...

   She's losing attraction for you too.

   In fact, it's a cycle.  You are doing it to
each other.

   What causes it?

   Too much friendship, familiarity, and learning
to like the same things.

   Weird, huh?  Because it sounds like those
things should be GOOD.  And to a certain extent
they are.

   But here's the problem...

   When you first met, and on your first couple
of dates, you probably did and said things to let
her know that you are a MAN.  You behaved in a
masculine way.

   And she was extra feminine.  She laughed
prettily at your jokes and sat up straight, and
did all sorts of things that turned you on because
they are so girlish.

   Have you ever noticed that when you spend a lot
of time with a particular friend, you start
picking up on each other's mannerisms, you start
saying the same things... you start acting more
like each other?

   Well, the same is true with your woman. 

   When couples have been together for awhile,
usually what happens is they start to act more
alike. 

   As a result... he becomes more feminine and
she becomes more masculine.

   Big trouble.

   And very, very hard to avoid.

   The truth is, this is a natural process-- and
it is much more natural in our generation than it
was for our parents where women made less money,
had fewer career options, and were expected to
do all the housework. 

   It established "sex roles" that were different.
Men did what men did and women did something else.

   I'm not saying that you need to get your girl
to do all the housework (though I'm not sure that
wouldn't be a bad thing!) but I AM saying that it's
harder to maintain the DIFFERENCE in sex roles
than it used to be... and that is part of what is
killing your attraction for each other.

   You need to maintain your masculinity in the
relationship.  You need to be the one who protects
her, who takes care of her, who pulls out chairs,
who makes quick decisions, and who kills the
spiders. 

   And you need to be comfortable asking her to
rub your shoulders and be comfortable stroking her
hair for an hour on the couch like you did when
you first started dating.

   You need to keep masculine BOUNDARIES and not
act like one of her girlfriends when she wants to
gossip. 

   You need to maintain some of your male mystery
and let her feel the intensity of your difference
from her.

   By the way, if you want more specific information
on what masculine traits get women sexually turned
on, you can find it here:

   And when you act more like a man, you will be
rewarded with two amazing things...

   First of all, the sex will become better right
away, because she is going to be suddenly much
more attracted to you. 

   Second, she is going to CHANGE in response to
you becoming masculine.

   When you take up that male-energy side of the
relationship, she doesn't have to.  And that
allows her to return the balance of the
relationship  by filling the female-energy side.

   She will become more feminine every day.  And
she will LIKE it.  Very quickly you will discover
that you like it too.

   And you will be increasingly attracted to her
sweet "female-ness".

   Finally, you will find that your roles of
male and female are expressed more in the bedroom
and that the sex will become more passionate and
more powerful for both of you.


>>> GO ON A "PORN DIET" <<<

   Maybe you have no interest in pornography...
If that's true, just go ahead and skip this part.

   But according to statistics, most men spend a
LOT of time looking at porn. 

   Now I'm not going to make any judgments about
that. I'm not particularly against porn or in
favor of censorship or anything like that.  And
my personal views on the subject aren't important
to what I'm talking about anyway...

   And I know that for MANY guys, the idea of
cutting down on porn is not something that they
want to hear. 

   But here is the cold, hard truth:

   Porn is highly addictive.  And though nobody
likes to admit it, it DOES hurt relationships.

   I am NOT trying to tell you what to do.  I am
just presenting you with an option that I think
you will ENJOY experimenting with.

   Again, this is about TRAINING YOUR MIND.  When
you stop looking at porn to get yourself hard,
your sexual energies will have only one outlet...

   Your woman.

   She will become increasingly precious when she
becomes the only thing that ever turns you on.

   In fact, she will increasingly become "your
type".

   The "type" of woman that we are attracted to
evolves over time, and when we've been with one
woman for a long time, one advantage that EVERY
other attractive woman has is just the simple
fact that she's NOT your woman. 

   Different becomes attractive.

   But when you cut off or reduce those visual
and fantasy options, you will become more and more
attracted to the woman that you are actually
having sex with.

   And having sex with a woman that you are very
attracted to is a lot of fun.

   So here's the experiment that I propose:

   Completely cut porn out of your life for 2 full
weeks.  Not one pornographic image is allowed.

   Not only that... no thumbing through the
Victoria's Secret Catalogue, no "Sports
Illustrated" Swimsuit Issue, no Maxim babes, no
sexually arousing images at all... except for
your woman.

   I know it sounds ridiculously harsh, and I know
there's nothing "wrong" with LOOKING as long as
you are not touching.

   But I am asking you to try this for only 2
weeks.  14 days.  You can do anything for 14 days,
right?

   At the end of those 14 days, I want you to
honestly decide if you are having better sex with
your woman.  Is it more fun?  Is it hotter?

  If it is, put a value on that amount of fun and
a value on the amount of fun that you are losing
by not looking at bikini babes calendars...

   You may find at the end of those 2 weeks, that
you miss the porn more than you like the better
sex with a real woman that loves you. 

   But, you also must realize at that point that
the effects are continuing to grow.  And, in fact,
they will continue to get better and better for a
long time.  So...

   Based on YOUR judgement, I'd like you to decide
whether to continue the experiment for another 14
days. 

   I know this may seem impossible from where you
sit right now, but MOST guys that have taken me
up on this challenge have given up porn forever.

   Not because of some moralism or because they
were trying hard to make their marriage "work" but
because they found that they had MORE PLEASURE
with their newly revived sex life than they were
getting from the porn.

   For other guys this might not be the case. 
That's fine.  I'm just SUGGESTING that you TRY IT.

   If you are one of the guys who is saying: "But
my wife and I watch porn TOGETHER."

   Okay, that's cool.  And I'm not telling you
you have to give it up.  I'm just saying TRY IT
for two weeks.  Get her on board with the idea and
see what you think.

   At first it might be hard because you've been
using the porn in place of foreplay to get both
of you "in the mood". 

   So the first week you might not feel like sex
at all. 

   Okay, that's fine.  Just stick with it and try
not to jerk off either.

   When you re-find each other when you are both
horny enough, I think you'll discover some crazy
attraction that you hardly remember that you used
to have for each other.

   Place your own value on it and at the end of 14
days, decide together whether or not you want to
continue the experiment.

   There's not "failure" here.  It either enhances
your life, or it doesn't.  For many couples it is
better-- but you have to decide what is right for
you.


NOW IT'S UP TO YOU

   Look, I'm a little nervous about this.

   I know that, unlike any of the other
Newsletters that I've sent out so far, this is the
first one where the tips I've shared actually take
some hard work and sacrifice from YOU.

   But if you have tried any of my other tips
along the way, then you know this:

   Everything that I share in this forum WORKS
AMAZINGLY WELL.

   If you are in a relationship, please TRY these
tips.  They sound simple.  They may even sound
obvious.

   They are neither.

   They have the power improve your life and your
happiness.

   Added to the tips that I usually share for
driving women crazy in bed, they can bring your
sex life inside of an intimate and committed
relationship to a powerfully SPIRITUAL level.

   If you are getting started down this path and
you are serious about having the kind of powerful
connection during sex that can cement your love
for a lifetime, then stop doing things half way...

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