This is an issue that so many guys have
difficulty with, and I get questions about
it all the time.

   Some guys are very focused on the first
time they ever "make the move" with a woman--
but about the same number have issues with
starting things up with a woman they've been
seeing for a long time...

   Have you ever felt nervous before getting
sexual with a woman?  Unsure if she would be
into it? 

   Have you ever felt really embarrassed, angry,
or even unloved when you were refused sex after
going for it?

   Of course you have.  It's part of life being
a man. 

   But there's just no need for all these
negative feelings, because with a few simple
guidelines, getting sexual with a woman should
never be a problem.

   Like I said above about who is asking me this
question... There are two very different situations
where this issue can occur--

   For single guys it is most difficult when it
is the FIRST time they are having sex with a girl
that they are dating (or just met, as the case
may be).

   For relationship or married guys, it is, of
course, not the first time, but yet, if they
find themselves in a situation where they feel
like they may be rejected by their partner, it
can begin to make them feel insecure...

   And, in fact, there's pretty good evidence that
if your partner is consistently rejecting you for
sex, that there might very well be other things
wrong with the relationship...

   Or, the reverse might be true... that the loss
of that sexual "spark" might slowly bleed the
relationship until one of you breaks it off or
just starts cheating.

   It's interesting that when I talk to single
guys, they think that making that move for the
first time is the  hardest part-- they risk
rejection and might not get a second shot-- it
FEELS dangerous.

   (And by dangerous, they mean to their egos... It
might be humiliating).

   But guys in relationships feel just the opposite.

   Those single guys, getting ready to initiate
sex with a woman for the first time have the huge
ADVANTAGE of excitement and thrill.  And what
woman can resist that?

   And as for that dangerous feeling the single
guy has... it's just an illusion.  He doesn't
really have anything valuable to lose.

   But the stakes in a relationship are very high,
especially if you are in love, and more especially
if you are married... and absurdly high if you
have children and are fighting to keep the
relationship healthy and vital and loving.

   And keeping things thrilling, exciting, or
even just moderately interesting for your woman
is a lot more complicated.

   But here's the big truth guys:

   The important steps you need to take, and the
methods that I'm going to share to make initiating
sex a breeze... are exactly the same for both cases.

   Whether you are single or in a relationship,
the rules that apply to making your partner really
excited and enthusiastic about having sex with you
RIGHT NOW are the same.

   Before I get into the nuts and bolts, let me
give you something important to think about.

   Who initiates sex more often in your
relationship?... or for single guys, who usually
starts sex when you are dating a woman?

   Well, almost all guys will answer this
question the same way:

   "Me."

   But here's where it gets really weird, guys.

   Most WOMEN answer the question the SAME way
too.

   In other words, most women think that they
are the ones that initiate sex more than 50% of
the time.

   What's going on here?

   The answer is both simple and kind of complex.

   The simple part is that men think that starting
sex means something really physical like pulling
her panties off or saying, "I'll go put on a condom."

   And women think that starting sex means being
the first to "communicate" to your partner that
you'd like to have sex...

   Which is to say, taking the risk of putting
it out there that you'd like to have sex, and
either having your partner accept that idea and
communicate "me too" or not accept... which can
be be humiliating.

   Notice that I kept using the word "communicate"
instead of the word "say".

   See, for a woman communicating that she'd like
to have sex RIGHT NOW might be something like
playing with her hair in a certain way, or parting
her lips and leaning her head back.  Or rubbing
her leg on yours.

  Then, when you feel like, 'hmmmm... I think
this girl might be feeling horny,' and you go
ahead and take off her clothing, you feel like
you just initiated sex...

   But in HER mind, SHE initiated sex and you
accepted by then being the man and leading the
dance.

   Think about this because it is a very important
thing to become aware of. 

   And consider that if you still think that YOU
started things up, and if you just completely
MISSED her "communication" that she'd like to
have sex RIGHT NOW, that it is entirely possible
that YOU have, on occasion, REJECTED HER...

   ...and not known it.

   And if that idea is starting to slowly creep
its way into your brain then you might think about
this:

   If it's possible to miss this entire (and
very important) piece of communication that might
have gotten you laid on your date last Saturday...

   Isn't it possible that there is an entirely
different way to initiate sex that makes more
sense to women?

  I hope you're nodding right now, because I am
about to share some information that is pure
GOLD. It took me ages to figure this stuff out,
and it has the power to completely transform
your relationships with women and get you a LOT
more sex when you want it.

   Have I got your attention?

   Okay, let's get down to the nuts and bolts of
how you can USE this new information.

>>>>> LEARN TO "COMMUNICATE" OR GET SHUT DOWN

   I'm about to reveal the number one reason that
the woman you are with might shut you down when
you go for sex...

   I hope  you are sitting down because this is
really a freak-show...

   She probably rejected you because she was mad
at you or hurt, and is just "getting even" because
at some point, earlier in the evening, YOU
rejected HER.

   Let is sink in for a moment.

   That's right.  At some point, earlier in the
evening, she gave you what SHE thought was a
crystal clear sign that she wanted sex... and you
MISSED IT completely.

   Maybe you felt it a bit and then you were
unsure, and you thought you might go for it, and
then you decided not to because it was still too
early to go for it...

   But whatever the case, she felt like she had
clearly "gone for it" and you had clearly shut her
down, and now she's shutting YOU down to give you
a taste of your own medicine.

   Doubt me? 

   Go ahead and ask your girlfriend.

   So this tip is  going to take a little work
on your part. 

   You need to start paying attention to what
women are doing.  Now that you are aware of these
subtle communications, you need to make an EFFORT
to tune into them.

   The BAD news is that it is probably different
for every woman on the planet, so I can't tell
you exactly what to look for.

   The GOOD news is that once you start looking
for it, the big "a-hah!" moment comes pretty
quickly.  And once you begin to see it in one
woman, it becomes much easier to see it in others.

   And then two things will happen...

   First, you will end up having more
opportunities for having sex because you will
see that she probably initiates fairly often.

   Second, you will understand what is going on
so that if you DON'T want sex at that moment, you
can at least be sensitive to what's going on and
not hurt her feelings.

   Instead of just ignoring her advance, you can
say, "mmmm, I'd love to throw you down right now,
but I've got to be a good boy and get some stuff
done first... but later... I am going to make
up for it in a very big way."

   That should be enough to keep YOU from getting
rejected later and, by the way, keep your woman
in a much better mood for the rest of the day.

>>>>> BE A MAN

   Don't whine, beg, or be cutsie. 

   Women are not turned on by wuss behavior.

   Here's the confusion-- when SHE does that
little baby-talk thing, we think it's really cute...
and maybe we even think it's a turn on... and we
start linking it in our heads to sex because it's
sexy when she does it...

   And so, somehow, maybe it gets confused in our
heads?

   I don't know. 

   But I DO KNOW this.  If you get laid while
using baby-talk on your woman, it is only because
she was very, very horny and decided to have sex
in SPITE of the weird turn-off thing you were
doing.

   A lot of guys also get very tentative when they
want sex.  They are shy about it.  So they are
tentative, and half joking when they go for it. 

   When do this, it is NOT a turn on for the woman
they are with.

   And when they then whine or say "please" it is
just sexually repulsive.

   You know how you really like women to be all
girlish and feminine?

   Well, guess what, they like it when YOU are
all hard and masculine.

   Avoiding being sexually repulsive will go a
long way to getting rejected a lot less!

   If you want some very specific examples of
how you SHOULD behave with women and the things
you should be saying to get her sexually excited,
you can get more information here:

   So... no whining, no begging, no baby-talk,
and no tentative asking.

   Well then, how SHOULD you go about asking for
sex?

   Glad you asked...

>>>>> SEDUCE HER

   Guys just don't seem to get that for women,
getting her horny is not what usually works
to get sex.

   I'm not saying that kissing her breasts is
not ever going to work.  Because it very often
does.

   But getting her hot emotionally first is just
much, much more reliable.

   Even if you've been married to a woman for 5
years... ESPECIALLY if you've been married to
her for 5 years... she will respond much more
powerfully to your advances if you make the
effort to not just fuck her... but seduce her.

   Again, this is just the opposite for men.

   Basically, if a woman rubs your cock, that
probably do the trick.  You'll get hard and
you're ready for sex.

   If you rub a woman's crotch, there is an
excellent chance she'll get wet... but that
does NOT mean that she necessarily wants sex.

   It's better to seduce her with words, touch,
or the way you look at her. 

   If she is already feeling romantic or sensual,
then it is easy to switch that to sexual.

   If she is feeling upset, frustrated, tense,
or pissed off, you are going to have to work
through intermediate emotions.

   A woman who is feeling frustrated or stressed
out from something that just happened at work, on
the phone, in the kitchen, or whatever, is NOT
going to receive it well if you try to initiate
sex.

   Instead, work your way through the emotions
she needs to feel to get to sex.

   You might start with relaxing her.  Rub her
shoulders and tell her that you are going to take
care of her, that it's okay and safe for her to
relax...

   From relaxed you might go to sensual.  Stroke 
her hair, tell it is soft and and tell her you
like the way she smells.

   From sensual, it is easy to get to sexual...

   Smell her neck and then kiss her there.  Make
sexual eye contact, get closer to her...

   Then you can go ahead and kiss her breasts and
take off her pants.

   How long should all of this take?

   Well, the truth is, it depends on how much
negative emotion you have to cut through.

   It takes as long as it takes to shift her from
emotion to emotion.

   The good news is that most women are very
emotionally flexible in the same way that gymnasts
have flexible bodies...

   The entire sequence can easily take less than
5 minutes... but there is no way to rush it... it
takes as long as it takes.

   And if you follow these 3 guidelines, you will
virtually never be sexually rejected by a woman
who is attracted enough to either be on a date
with you or already in a relationship with you.

   If  you ARE still rejected, then you should
seriously evaluate the situation.  Something else
is probably going on in her emotional life, in
the life of the relationship, or in your sex
life.

   You should not ignore those signs.  It may
be time to evaluate if you still want to keep
the relationship-- and if you decide that you do,
you probably need to take some action to fix
things.

   Of course, all the tips in the world on how
to initiate sex aren't going to ensure that
everything goes well from there.

   And, unfortunately, I know that telling you
not to be tentative and to "seduce her" are
IDEAS that are easier for me to type than for
you to do.

   Really understanding this stuff is part of an
overall understanding of female sexual response,
and getting more self-awareness of your own
sex-role and how to come into alignment with it.

   But ALL of that stuff is learnable, and if you
don't get these skills into your head, you have
nobody to blame but yourself.

   Really mastering the powers of your own
sexuality so that you can drive any woman
completely wild... or build incredible intimacy
with the woman you love is something that is not
for everyone.

   Obviously the vast majority of men will never
take the effort to get there.  Most lack the
confidence in themselves to even try.

   If you are one of the guys that wants to
learn these revolutionary sex techniques and
ideas, then you are in the right place, and  I
am very glad you found your way here.

   Take the next step and download your copy of
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