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I know what you want... You want one of those
women who are born with that gift of being able
to orgasm in less than a minute.
They do exist-- women who are completely
comfortable with their sexuality, who can have female orgasm
easily regardless of YOUR ability, who have crazy
multiple orgasms after 5 or 10 minutes, who
scream like there's no tomorrow...
And basically make YOU look like a rock star.
(with or without any fancy female orgasm techniques)
And I know we don't always get what we want.
The fact is, it is much more common for women
to have a more difficult time reaching an orgasm.
How long does it take most women to come?
Well, according to research, the exact time that
most women take is just a bit longer to come than...
most men.
Nice, huh? Who designed this system?
Not a woman, that's for sure. Sorry ladies,
but if ever there was proof that God is not a
woman...
Okay, all joking aside, most women require a
bit of skill, a bit of patience, and a bit of
emotional comfort to do the trick...
But a very large number of other women find it
extremely difficult, or even impossible to reach
orgasm with a man... some can't get there at all.
None of these things are important to YOU-- the
only thing that matters to you, is --what does
it take to get YOUR girl to come?
Why is this so important to us guys?
Here's the thing-- so many guys link their self-
image to their performance with their girlfriend.
If she is a woman that comes easily, they feel
great. If she's a woman that you can't make come
at all, you feel like crap.
That is backwards. You should not link your
self-image to HER sexuality.
(Instead, you should you use your self confidence
to shape her sexuality-- but more on that later).
The same is true for how we feel about the
relationship-- if you can make her come all the
time, you feel great because you know that she is
probably happy-- you feel like she LIKES you.
And you are probably justified in feeling like
you are losing some of her affection if you
consistently fail to make her come.
And finally, there is a question of your ROLE
in the relationship. Whether or not you can
blow her mind in the bedroom can make you feel
like you are in CONTROL of the relationship... or
if you can't do it for her... like every little
thing that happens sets things off kilter, and
that you have no control or confidence in keeping
things stable with your woman.
Here's the problem:
So many guys walk around feeling like there is
just NOTHING THEY CAN DO about it.
They blame it on their size, their staying power,
their attractiveness... or... they blame it on
HER...
SHE won't tell me what she wants, SHE has
problems coming, SHE had a bad experience in her
childhood, SHE is never in the mood...
Here's the FACT:
EVERYTHING IS FRUSTRATING BEFORE WE LEARN HOW
TO DO IT.
Ever see a baby learning to walk? Remember the
first time you ever tried to parallel park? Ever
tried to teach a kid to catch?
All these things are so simple you don't even
think about it when you're doing them... once you
LEARN the basics.
Trust me, I know what it's like to be in bed
with a woman who is always ALMOST there.
I know how much you can feel like your ego is on
the line... like your masculinity is on the line...
or worst of all, like your RELATIONSHIP is on the
line.
But guess what?
Like parallel parking, you can actually LEARN
to get so good female orgasm techniques, and
at tuning in to exactly how to
give a woman an orgasm, that you'll never have to
deal with these feelings again.
I know, I KNOW... I just said that every woman
different and that some women have a much harder
time than others in reaching orgasm.
And that is TRUE.
But here is the HUGE OPPORTUNITY to be her HERO
FOR LIFE...
If you learn these female orgasm techniques...HOW to give a woman an orgasm, then
consistently, over time, she will BECOME one of
those women who can come easily.
I have seen this time and again. Women can be
"conditioned" to respond to your touch until they
are as multi-orgasmic as you can imagine.
This is no "magic trick."
It only requires 2 things from you to learn "how to give a female a orgasm":
1) A little bit of patience.
A woman that has never had an orgasm is not
going to be having multiple, stacked orgasms with
full female ejaculation in a week.
It is a process. It takes time, trust,
nurturing, and... in a perfect world... love.
2) A little bit of KNOWLEDGE.
YOU need to spend the time to gain the SKILL
required to make this happen. Men who DO have
these skills are exceedingly rare... (which,
obviously, is why women who can't come are NOT
very rare)...
So keep reading, and take your first step
towards becoming the guy with the skill.
I am going to give you a simple 3-STEP METHOD
for making a woman come.
This method WORKS.
By repeating it with your wife or girlfriend,
over time, it works better and better.
Within this simple sounding method is the
groundwork for the most important principle in
becoming "great in bed", which is, of course:
Sexual Trust
Sexual Trust is built upon "emotional intimacy"
and COMPETENCE (your skill and confidence as a
lover).
And both of these things are built, over time,
as you practice these 3-steps with your woman.
>>THE 3-STEP METHOD TO GIVE A FEMALE A ORGASM<<
>>1. "ALL DAY FOREPLAY"
My concept of All Day Foreplay is a very
important one to understand.
First, because it redefines the very IDEA of
foreplay from "getting her turned on" to "making
her feel sexy".
The difference is profound. Don't worry about
turning her on, or getting her "wet", or sexually
receptive, or any of those weird things you may
have read in a biology book.
The most important thing about foreplay the
way I am defining it is to get her EMOTIONALLY
ready for making love.
This is not about being "horny."
The key principle here is that you make her
feel sexually attractive. Make her feel like a
sexy and sexual being. Make her FEEL her own
femininity.
The second big distinction in All Day Foreplay
is that... it's all day.
You can't turn a person's emotions on and off
like flipping a light switch. Your behavior and
attitude towards your woman ALL DAY LONG is
going to be in bed with you that night.
If you've been treating her like "one of the
guys", or your business partner in the game of
life, or your best friend that you can snap at
and they'll still like you in the morning--
Well, let's just say that is NOT the way to
make her feel sexy.
But if, throughout the day, you subtly remind
her that IN YOUR EYES, she is a flower... she is
feminine, sexy, and desired...
If you treat her in a way that clearly
demonstrates your relative masculinity and her
relative femininity... pulling out chairs,
protecting her, touching her with love and
gentleness...
If you call her and remind her that you can't
wait to put your hands on her...
Then, when you get the bedroom, she will feel
feminine, sexy, and like a sexual creature that
is ready for your touch.
That is foreplay.
The part where you are physically in bed
touching her is no longer foreplay... that's
actually part of what we call making love.
Here's what you do when you get to that
part...
>> 2 PAYING ATTENTION
I've written a couple of newsletters on this
subject, and about half the chapters of my book
explain the various aspects of this ALL-IMPORTANT
concept.
Every woman is different.
This is a much bigger statement than it sounds
like. I wish I could spend a few hours talking
about it, but let's just begin with this--
Some women can only have orgasms from clitoral
stimulation. Some can only have orgasms from
their g-spot. Some require both. Some like the
feeling of "fullness" from intercourse... and the
list can go on for a long time.
The only way that you are going to know what
works on your woman is to TRY things... and, of
course, PAY ATTENTION.
First of all, I am assuming you know WHERE the
clitoris is, where the g-spot is, and the various
ways in which they can be stimulated during oral
sex and intercourse.
You NEED to know these basics, and if you want
an in depth review of EVERY important aspect of
where and how to touch a woman, please get that
information by going here first:
www.RevolutionarySex.com
"Paying Attention" is a long term process.
You will get better and better at it. You
will begin to understand exactly what is working,
and what is not. Things that seemed vague at first
become clear.
Again, it is a matter of practice and patience.
Ever try manipulating those little screw
drivers to fix a pair of glasses?
It can be incredibly frustrating!
But if you've ever seen a watch-maker using
them, you just can't believe your eyes at the
dexterity he has with them.
Same thing here. You will be amazed at how
much more sensitive you become to your woman over
time.
And, more importantly, something powerfully
emotional happens BETWEEN you as you continue
to perfect the art of tuning your thoughts into
how SHE is feeling.
A powerful intimacy develops.
And it is this intimacy, more than any other
factor, that will turn your woman into an orgasm
machine.
And, of course, that kind of intimacy is what
makes sex into making love. A very beautiful
transformation.
>>3. DON'T RUSH THE RHYTHM
So, you've been paying attention, and now you
know exactly what is working. You sense that
moment when her breath hitches and you've found
exactly the spot, the amount of pressure, and...
the rhythm that is ramping her up...
Here's where most guys mess up.
We almost can't help ourselves.
When we get that excited signal from a woman,
we want to get her to give us MORE.
So what do we do?
We speed up. We apply more pressure. We go
deeper.
Now, some women understand exactly what has
just happened, and they will say, "slow down,
hold it right there, yes, that's it."
But guess what?
That's the woman who is already orgasmic and
comes very easily.
For most women, they are not exactly sure what
went wrong...
One minute they were getting closer and closer,
and the next it seemed like they were off track
again... they get frustrated... they're not sure
why things stopped climbing...
They say, "I'm almost there," because they don't
want you to stop-- they feel like at any second you
might find that sweet rhythm again.
And when you do... when you find that rhythm,
and because you are PAYING ATTENTION, you know
you've hit it...
JUST KEEP DOING WHAT YOU ARE DOING.
Don't speed up, don't slow down-- just stay
right there.
She should come in under 2 minutes.
That's all there is to the method. It is
actually that simple.
Or, that complex, depending upon your starting
point...
Things like "All Day Foreplay" can be a big
lifestyle shift.
And it does not mean that you can never have a
fight or that you must always be perfectly nice.
But it does mean that you will have to start
treating her like a sexual creature. And that
can be a jump.
The great news is that you will both enjoy the
results in your relationship-- even outside the
bedroom.
Paying Attention can also be something that
takes a while to really get good at.
But be patient. Consistently work these 3 steps
into your lovemaking. Watch what happens. Notice
the subtle changes.
You will see that she comes more and more
easily over time. And that her admiration for
you and your happiness with the relationship goes
up and up.
And of course, your sexual pleasure will go up
at the same time.
The simple fact is, if you follow these steps,
you will be a different man inside of your
relationship.
You are in the process of BECOMING a world-class
lover. And that will have a cascade of positive
emotional effects on both of you.
I hope that you are ready to begin to see
yourself in this new way.
Take a moment to visualize who you will be, how
your life will be different, how you will move
through the world when you have a woman on your
arm that adores you and sexually worships you.
Becoming comfortable with that image of yourself
is incredibly important to becoming successful at
what I am explaining to you here.
Of course, reading these steps and using them
in the actual situation that they are designed
for is different.
I know that every man faces a series of very
unique challenges in his relationships. And when
you add to that fact that every WOMAN is unique
as well...
Obviously I can't coach every guy perfectly
in just a newsletter.
That is why I wrote down EVERYTHING I know into
one, single source-book of information.
Because it covers everything, I'm certain that
it holds the exact key to YOUR situation.
Using what you've learned here, if you apply
it every day, will give you AMAZING results.
But to shortcut all of the little challenges
along the way (and different challenges that come
up as you reach each new LEVEL OF MASTERY), you
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