“Female Orgasm:
The Essential Things You
Must Know”

 


   I've been working to boil down the most
important aspects of "how to give a female a
orgasm" to the most basic parts...

   There are many, many things that you can do (or
that she can do to herself) that will make her
orgasm... and I'll bet that over the years, couples
have come up with all kinds of very strange and
amazing techniques of their own that really turn
them on.

   But I'm looking for the ESSENTIALS... the
most important factors that are underneath ALL
of the best female orgasm techniques...

   Not just the technique itself, but WHY it
works.

   The idea is to be able to explain to guys
EXACTLY how and why these things work so that
they can confidently make any woman experience
amazing sexual pleasure in bed-- without having
to imitate some other guy...

   I want you to be totally able to do whatever
you want to do, "in the moment" and still make it
work.

   One of the things that KILLS sexual tension,
attraction, and arousal in a woman is when you
are TRYING TOO HARD TO PLEASE HER.

   Think about that for a minute, because it's
kind of counter-intuitive.

   Because you are always hearing the message
that "women want a lover who puts HER needs first."

   And guess what?

   That statement is WRONG.

   Sure it's the kind of thing that women will
nod in agreement to if you say it... but really,
if you talk to them more, if you dig deeper,
they will admit that they don't want a guy who is
just catering to her needs...

   She wants YOU to enjoy the experience just as
much as you want HER to enjoy the experience.

   She doesn't want a guy who is so wrapped up
in whether or not SHE is enjoying it, that he
acts nervous or gives away all of his masculine
power to her.

   And that thing about how women don't like men
who are "selfish in bed"...

   That's not quite right either.

   Now before you go off and and become the guy
who comes in three pumps and then goes to order
a pizza...

   That's NOT what I'm talking about either.

   What I AM talking about is a guy who KNOWS
what he wants and isn't afraid to get his woman
to do those things.

   Women are turned on by men who are masculine
and confident enough to be unashamed of what they
want, and GO FOR IT.

   So here's my problem-- the focus of these
newsletters is generally how to turn HER on, how
to give HER great orgasms, how to make HER feel
great.

   But I want to make sure, along the way, you
understand that you have to make sure that YOU
are getting YOUR needs met too!  That you are
getting everything you want out of it, and not
afraid to tell her what you want her to do for
your pleasure.

   And, coincidentally, this will also make it
much better for sex for her too.

   So when I set out to find the most basic things
that you need to give any woman an orgasm-- even
if your wife or girlfriend is a "hard case" who
has never had an orgasm before... I had to get
beyond that stuff about just catering to her.

   In other words-- you shouldn't need to go
down on her for hours... UNLESS you love to go down
on her for hours...

   And chances are, if it's making her come and
scream like a banshee then you DO love it...

   So how do we make all of this happen?

   I've boiled down the basic, ESSENTIAL principles
to three categories that conveniently work with the
easy-to-remember name of...

   "The ABC's Of Great Sex"

   "A" is for Anatomy.

   Obviously, on the most basic level, you have
just GOT to know where things are on a woman's
body.

   That means that you can confidently and quickly
locate things like the clitoris, the g-spot, the
cervix, the labia, etc.

   If you don't have that part completely handled,
then you can very quickly find the information online
by typing any of those words into google.

   This is basic, "must know" information.

   The more advanced stuff to know about a her
anatomy is not universal for every woman-- so you
will have to do some exploring...

   Every woman has her own erotic map of places
on her body that turn her on. 

   For example, some women will go wild with
lust if you nibble their earlobes... and some
women will find it annoying.

   Finding the spots on her body that drive her
crazy is part of the fun of love-making.

   Okay, next...

   "B" is for Body Control.

   In this case I'm talking about YOUR body.

   Obviously there are many amazing things you
can do to her with your fingers and tongue.  And
for giving a woman her first orgasm, the tongue
is probably superior to the penis.

   But for the most amazing sex she's ever had
in her life, you will need to have control over
your erection. 

   Controlling your body is something that she
sees as a masculine and powerful characteristic.

   And that, unfortunately, means that if you
CAN'T control yourself, that she'll feel that you
are a bit less manly... and this will affect her
sexual attraction to you... her desire to BE
sexual with you...

   And that's true even if you can give her a
hundred multiple orgasms with your tongue.

   If you happen to be a guy with challenges in
this area, I have some news for you that you may
find difficult to believe-- but it's a fact:

   This is the EASIEST part of being great in bed.

   Why?

   Because it's the part that is TOTALLY in your
control.  It's YOUR body, and YOU can control it.

   If you are shaking your head and saying, "but
I CAN'T!"  Please slap yourself hard across the
face and get a grip on yourself.

   Yes, you can.

   It may take some work, some practice, some
courage... but you absolutely can.  Other men
have overcome this challenge and so can you.

   I'm not going further into this now because
I've got to get to "C", but if this is a challenge
in your life, STOP reading now and go HERE:

www.revolutionarysex.com

   All the info you need to get this dealt with
once and for all is right there.

   Okay, so moving along... the other reason that
controlling your erection is so important is
that while you can give her an orgasm with your
tongue-- when you give her an orgasm while you are
INSIDE of her body, and face-to-face it creates
a magic intimacy for her that can't be replaced.

   And the feelings and emotions this creates
inside of her are what will release even more
powerful orgasms and take her to places that no
other man has ever taken her to.

   And this is only possible through the final
piece of the puzzle...

   "C" is for CONNECTION

   This is both the most difficult and, by far,
the most important part of giving a woman her
most incredible experience in the bedroom.

   If you are with a woman who has never had an
orgasm before...

   THIS is how you will give her her first.

   If you are with a woman who is very orgasmic
and can easily have multiple orgasms from any
sexual position-- this will EXPLODE her beliefs
about how much sexual pleasure she is capable of
experiencing.

   And, by the way, it will blow your mind to
find out how much more powerful your own orgasms
will become as well.

   "Connection" is a complex subject and a complex
skill and that's why so few men can do it... which
is why so few men are any good in bed... and also
why so many women have never had an orgasm.

   Here's the thing that is so frustrating for
so many guys--

   Even if she LOVES you...

   Even if you are her best FRIEND...

   Even if you have been together for YEARS...

   She probably still doesn't feel the kind of
sexual "connection" I'm talking about.

   In fact (and here's the real freak-show), often
these factors PREVENT her from feeling sexual
connection with you because her closeness to you
makes it scary for her--

   Have you ever noticed that if some guy you
know tells you that you're doing something wrong
and corrects you, or tells you that your shirt
looks stupid-- it's no big deal.  You forget
about it two minutes later.

   But if the woman you love says these things
it hurts like hell... and may start a big fight?

   We are emotionally raw with the people we
love the most.

   And that's why it's so difficult for you to
build this sexual Connection with her. 

   She is terrified of being so completely
vulnerable with you because if you reject her,
it will emotionally destroy her.

   Because when you establish this connection,
she completely surrenders herself to you. 

   That is when you can make her orgasm,
literally at will.

   There are very specific techniques and actions
you can take to create this connection-- it is not
just "luck" or "chemistry".

   And likewise, there are very specific things
you can do to  destroy it... And most guys are so
completely unaware of these things that they do
them all the time without realizing it.

   But I guarantee, if you can do the simple
steps-- learn about her ANATOMY, and CONTROL your
own body... you can absolutely learn to do this
third, critical step...

   And completely BLOW HER MIND in the bedroom in
ways that she never thought possible.

   It's almost funny to watch how shocked she will
be afterwards-- because she just never suspected
that so much sexual pleasure was remotely possible.

   I hope you'll keep reading these newsletters
to find out more about what I'm talking about
here.

   In the coming months I'll be sharing lots of
tips on how to build that connection.

   Of course, if you want ALL the techniques and
ideas behind this "magical" experience, and you
want them NOW, you can always download your copy
of my online eBook, "Revolutionary Sex", and get
started right away.

   In fact, if you do it right now, I'll even
give you a 7-day "window" to read it and check
it out before you get charged for it... that
way, if it's not what you expected or it's not
for you, you don't have to pay.

   To see it for yourself right now, go here--

www.revolutionarysex.com


   I'll be talking to you again soon with a lot
more great tips for improving your sex life and
your relationship.

   Your friend,

   Alex