I am amazed at how popular this question
I don't know when it became such a big
thing in our culture, but suddenly everyone is
asking me "Alex, how can I make a girl 'squirt.'"
It's a very interesting question because
there is so much misinformation, myth, and doubt
mixed in with the truth about this fun part of
female sexual response, female ejaculation.
But I'm here for you, man-- to help you
sort through what's real, what's fake, what is
REALLY going on when it happens, and EXACTLY how
you get your own sexual partner to experience female ejaculations...
Even if she never has before.
First, let's look at some of the myths
and some of the nonsense, and some of the outright
garbage that's out there concerning female
ejaculation, and clear up some of the things
guys have been asking me about.
It'll be like my own little FAQ page to
the world of female ejaculation...
>>Q: Is it true that "squirting" is just
something that pornographers made up to show us
another weird thing on the Internet?
Is it true that "squirting" is just
something that women, feminists, or lesbians made
up to make men feel inadequate when they can't
make their woman experience it?
Female ejaculation is very real. It wasn't made up
by pornographers, feminists, or lesbians. It's an
actual thing that can happen during sex, and most
women who have done it call it an overwhelmingly
powerful sexual experience.
The thing is, pornographers HAVE gotten
hold of the idea, and the world is FULL of fake
Now I am no expert on special effects and
movie magic, so I have no absolute idea where
all of this fake squirting is coming from...
But at least in SOME of the cases, the
women shown are urinating. And I imagine in
some others they may be filling women up with
some kind of fluid into their vaginas, and then
having them forcefully push it out by clenching
their internal muscles.
Again, I'm no expert on how they are
making the fakes...
But I do know this: Because there is so
much fake squirting around, it's no mystery why
so many people think female ejaculation is not real at all.
>>Q: Girls that "squirt" are really just
Well... um... I mean... sometimes.
As I explained above, that is one popular
method of "faking" female ejaculation.
And also, it is possible, and sometimes
happens, that a woman becomes so overwhelmed in
sexual ecstasy that she simply loses control of
her bladder, and does, in fact, pee a bit when
However, this is very unusual, and it is NOT
>>Q: Wait a minute! I read that women
CAN'T pee when they are having an orgasm because
it clenches those muscles... and so when something
comes out of their urethra when they are coming it
MUST be squirting! Don't you know anything?!
>>A: Yes, I have read that too.
I have also read that UFO aliens are
doing experiments on us and the government is
covering it up.
Now I'm not sure whether or not the UFO
thing is true...
But I AM sure that the thing about women
not being able to pee when they are having an
orgasm is false.
It is simply a wrong fact, possibly presented
by an embarrassed woman who didn't want to admit
that she had wet the bed in the throws of ecstasy...
But whoever first said it, it has been
repeated many, many times in writing...
And it's wrong.
It may come from the well known fact that
MEN cannot pee when they are having an orgasm.
That fact is true.
But women can, if they so choose (though
I have no idea WHY they would choose to do that
except for some peeing fetish thing).
If you are into pee, you can certainly
experiment with this in the shower with your
woman. You can then easily prove that women CAN,
in fact, pee when coming.
And, unfortunately, I have direct
experience with the fact that some women,
particularly if their bladder is very full, can
lose control down there from extremely intense
orgasms, and involuntarily wet the bed.
But, again, this is not female ejaculation.
>> Q: Well, if it's not pee that comes out
during female ejaculation, what the heck is it?
>> A: Great question.
And I sure hope they do more research into
this area some day...
But the fact is, there is no money in
finding out what comes out of women when they
squirt. And until there is, it is unlikely that
any major university, private laboratory, or
biomedical research company will ever launch a
major study on the subject.
That said, I will tell you that there are
two theories, and in my experience, BOTH are
The reason that both are probably correct
is that from what I've been able to observe (and
I've observed pretty obsessively), there are TWO
TYPES of female ejaculation.
I know, it's crazy, but that is what
seems to be happening, and what's even stranger
is that in experimenting with how to make a
woman squirt I have found that...
Both types happen from the same stimulation
techniques (which I'll go into below).
Anyway, some women seem to squirt from
the vagina, and some from the urethra (the hole
below the clitoris that urine comes out of).
For women that squirt from the vagina, it
is pretty obvious that the stuff coming out is
just her normal vaginal lubrication-- just more
of it, and coming out with some force.
For women that squirt from the urethra...
Well, it's not too obvious WHAT is coming
out. And, again, no serious research is likely to
be done anytime soon.
That said, it is NOT urine.
It does not smell like urine, it has a
different consistency, and a slightly milky color.
Most of the science lined up behind the issue
thinks that it comes from the Skene's glands-- tiny
glands that lie along the base of the urethral tube.
This is almost certainly exactly what it comes
from-- but, again, nobody has done the specific
science to prove it.
In any case, if you want more detail on
that argument, what comes out of women when they
ejaculate, and what the different sexual response
is from each type, I go into depth and detail
on that and that whole squirting subject in my book
But for the purpose of this newsletter,
I'll end the FAQs here and get to the part that
I know you are most interested in...
How to make YOUR sex partner squirt.
Let me give you an important little warning up
Once you teach a woman female ejaculation, there
is a strong chance that she will continue to squirt
fairly often when you make love.
And as cool as that may sound to you
right now, some women squirt a fairly large
amount, and it can make a pretty good mess.
And that mess, when it happens frequently
can be a bit inconvenient after a few months.
I'm not saying that you shouldn't go for
it, because I am ALL for giving women the most
sexual pleasure that they can possibly have...
But you might want to start keeping towels
near the bed, and set her down on top of them
before you begin.
Okay, here is how it's done:
>>1. Don't Be Disappointed if not much fluid
And don't be freaked out if a huge amount
does come gushing out.
Different women ejaculate different
amounts-- from a little dribble to a major
torrent. One is not better than the other.
Either way, I think it'll be obvious
when it happens.
>>2. Delay Her Orgasm
The longer you delay her orgasm, the
better the chances that you will succeed in
making her squirt.
This means a lot of foreplay and sensual
But also it means that once you begin to
touch her sexually, that you need to bring her
to the edge without taking her over.
There are many ways of doing this, and
it is a very important and sophisticated topic...
And I would love to spend the next 10
pages on it... and I WILL make it the topic of
a future Newsletter... Because it is a sure way
to rock her world.
>>3. Make Her Come-- quickly and forcefully.
After delaying her orgasm for a long time,
she will have built up a great deal of fluid in
her vagina or para-urethral (Skene's) glands.
When you do make her come, you want to
build it slowly and then bring her over the edge
The best way to do this is with a verbal
command and very vigorous stimulation.
Some women who have difficulty reaching
orgasm quickly on their own are natural squirters,
but women who are very orgasmic, can be just as
impressive if you delay them properly.
There are a few different ways to make
sure that you get her to come hard and fast when
the time is right, and using one of these
methods is the surest way to do the trick. So...
The only piece left is-- what is the best
way to stimulate her to get the squirt?
>>4. Use One Of These Proven Squirt Sex Positions
I wish I could give you the scientific
reason why, but for whatever reason, beyond the
fact that these methods produce hard, fast orgasms,
but for whatever other reasons... these three
are consistently the best for getting a woman to
Some women, as I mentioned, ejaculate
easily from many different positions, and they
will definitely have impressive results with all
three of these positions.
Other women might only respond to one or
two of them. Generally one of the first two will
work very well.
--The first, which works very often, is to
use your tongue on her clitoris.
The key is to find a rhythm that drives
What you're looking for is an amount of
direct stimulation to the tip of the clit that
is just beyond what she can comfortably deal
You need to keep a lot of mental and
emotional connection with her while you do this
so that you can reassure her that she can be still
and that she can "take it."
You want to go just past her edge.
When you finally tell her it's alright to
let go, you might have to hold her hips still with
your weight to keep her from squirming right off
(NOTE: I never condone use of force or
EVER doing ANYTHING to a woman that she does not
Be advised that when she squirts, you
are going to get it all over your chin and down
This is way more fun than it sounds like.
For some women, the key to make this method
work is to insert a finger and massage her g-spot
at the same time... for some women, not.
Every woman is different, so you may have to
experiment a bit. But that is part of the fun.
--The second method works even more often
and most women will respond very powerfully to it.
You will use your fingers to stimulate
her g-spot for this one.
The key is the hand position and the
Lay her down on her back, and have her
lift her legs up in the air, knees bent.
Make a "hook" with your middle finger or
both middle and ring-finger. Put your finger/s
inside of her, pointing up towards her belly.
(The fingers should be wrapped around
her pubic bone, the tips against her g-spot).
In this position, you can then lay your
palm across the top of her vagina and her clitoris.
Applying light pressure with the palm,
the motion is NOT in-and-out, but rather, up-
As the fingers go up and down against
the g-spot, the palm brushes up and down on the
After delaying her orgasm as long as
possible, you want to use this motion quickly
Again, this will probably take her past
the edge of the amount of pleasure she is
accustomed to dealing with, and you may have to
encourage her verbally, and help her by holding
her hips down so that she doesn't squirm right
off the bed.
You are in for a big surprise and she is
in for the treat of her life!
--The last method, which is also
consistently effective, is not for everyone
because it involves anal sex.
If either you or your partner are not
"into" anal sex, you should not feel any pressure
to "try it."
It's not a big deal and you don't want
to ever do anything that is upsetting to your
partner, and you should never feel pressured to
do anything that YOU don't also enjoy in the
If this is an area that you both might
enjoy exploring, then go ahead and try this one:
First, please remember that anal sex can
be dangerous if not done with care-- condoms are
necessary to prevent the possibility of infection
or disease, and lube and careful penetration are
important to avoid injuring the delicate tissue
of the anus and colon.
NEVER put your penis into her vagina after
it has been in her anus without removing the condom,
and, even better, taking a shower first.
Once you've got those issues under control
you want to put the woman on top, facing away from
Reach around her to gently stroke her
clitoris, or she can do this part herself.
Then have her place her palms to the
outside of your chest so that she is leaning
This will actually force your penis to
push against the walls of her vagina and up into
With you penetrating her anus in this
position she can rock back and forth and...
That's it. The results can be
spectacular, and, possibly addictive for her!
So make sure it's something you are definitely
comfortable with, because she is going to want
you to do it again!
Okay, so now that I've shared all of this
great information with you, I'll make a little
There is, of course, a bit more to making
a woman squirt than just "techniques," and this
Newsletter, alone, will not guarantee that you
can make it happen for any and every woman that
you are with.
The good news is that in terms of the
"technical" and physical aspects of it, this
is pretty much all you'll ever need to know if
you want to get a woman to experience female
The part that I have NOT written about,
involves the more psychological and emotional
aspects of sex...
And they are, as you've probably heard me
say many, many times by now, the more important
and more powerful part of becoming a master in
It is because I have gotten to the roots
of EXACTLY what makes a woman FEEL these emotions
of sexual trust and intimacy, that so many guys
have had such incredibly success from reading my
Only when you learn the secrets behind
creating these emotions in a woman, can you unlock
her full sexual potential and make her experience
orgasms so powerful and intense that it will,
literally, blow her mind.
I really want to share these ideas with
you. Because I really believe that it can have a
powerfully positive effect on your relationships
with women... and your life.
I'm so sincere about this, that the
the book is unconditionally guaranteed.
All you have to do is click on over to
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Now the book is not free... the
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ridiculously low price that I'm asking...
But YOU DON'T have to pay for it unless
you agree with me that it is as valuable as I am
saying it is.
More importantly, I'd like to challenge
you to go ahead and start USING the information
in the book with your wife, girlfriend, or other
If SHE doesn't agree that it is absolutely
mind blowing, then, seriously man, I don't want
your money. Just email me and I'll send your money back.
Obviously I only make this offer because
basically every guy that downloads it DOES pay me.
But you are not every guy. And I will
respect YOUR judgement.
Download the book. Read it. Try it with
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And I hope that you'll continue to read
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Note From Alex Allman: Just reviewed this article here in the archive... and the information is dated! I am constantly making updates... and there is much more current information on Female Ejaculation Techniques in the current version of the eBook.