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How To Tell If She's Faking Female Orgasm
***QUESTION***
Dear Alex,
I appreciate the news letters but how about some
advice about keeping it up, lasting long, or going
until your knees get weak. Or maybe that might be
a little too much for a guy.
I mean, I'm 19 years of age, i'm athletic, I have
a very strong back, i just don't understand why I
can't last longer than 25-30 min
IF there is any type of advice you can give to me
it would help because I know my girl is tired of
it. She always say DAM I WAS ALMOST THERE.
like I said, if there is any type of information
that you can give it would be greatly appreciated.
GS
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Hey man, we've all heard the "I'm almost there"
thing.
The thing you've got to understand is that the
problem is NOT how long you are lasting.
25-30 minutes of continuous intercourse is pretty
much an Olympic level performance and you've got
nothing to worry about on that score.
Most women can't take continuous thrusting for
anywhere near that much time. They start to dry
out from the friction, and then it just starts to
hurt.
Great sex can definitely last for hours... but
it's not all about banging away in there.
But the fact is...
And I hate to sound harsh... but If you
haven't popped her weasel by 5 minutes of
continuous intercourse, then you are doing
something very wrong.
Without more details of exactly what is going
on between you and your girl, I can't say for
sure what is wrong, but here's a few sex tips you
should try...
>>1. A LOT More Foreplay
By the time you put your cock inside of her,
she should be shaking with anticipation. If you
do this right, some women will actually come from
your first thrust.
Yes, you read that right.
To build that level of anticipation, you've
got to master the art of TEASING.
Bring her up to the edge and back her down
again... and again.
This is partly a mental game. It stops her
from working so hard at coming when she realizes
that you aren't even trying to get her to come.
When you take that pressure off of her and just
have some fun with it, you'll see things are
very different.
>>2. Make Her Come First By Going Down On Her
MOST women (though not all), can orgasm much
more easily and quickly after they have already
had their first orgasm.
After a lot of foreplay and teasing, go down
on her and PAY ATTENTION to find out exactly how
much pressure and what rhythm she responds to on
her clit.
Once you find that rhythm DO NOT SPEED UP OR
SLOW DOWN. Just stay right there with her and
she should come pretty quickly.
If you're feeling extra generous, make her come
3 or 4 times this way.
Then, when you start the actual "intercourse"
part of the show, she'll have no problem getting
back there very quickly.
>>3. Try Different Sex Positions
Again, I don't want to be harsh here, but if
you are doing something for 30 minutes and it's
not working... Don't you think it might be a good
idea to try something else?
Depending on her body and the areas of her
vagina, g spot, or clitoris that are most sensitive... and
depending on the size and angle of YOUR equipment,
different sex positions are going to have very
different results.
If you need more information, or want some
specific ideas of what positions you should try
based on your anatomy and her needs, you can
find it here:
>>4. WORK ON INTIMACY, NOT TECHNIQUE OR ENDURANCE
Now, the first 3 sex tips I gave you are solid, but
the chances are very good that none of them are
really going to be the big solution you are looking
for.
The truth is, for women, the main thing that
gets them off... the main thing that will determine
whether or not she has an orgasm... and the main
thing that will set you apart from other men she
has been with... is your ability to "emotionally
connect" with her.
Not that there's anything wrong with being
"athletic" and having "a strong back"... I mean,
chicks dig that...
But at the end of the day, a guy that can get
into her BRAIN is going to do much more for her
sexually than a guy who can make love to her for an hour
straight without taking a break.
You need to tune into her while you are having
sex and make her feel like she can trust you
enough to completely surrender herself to you.
I'd love to explain that to you right here,
but the simple fact is, it takes an entire book.
Which is why I wrote the book and why you need
to download it right now.
***SUCCESS STORY***
Hey Alex,
Thanks for putting together your book...
When my husband and I got married, we had very
different sexual backgrounds... he was very faithful
to saving himself for marriage, while I was quite
the opposite-- until I met him.
Without trying to be hurtful, I endured a year and
a half of marriage without a fully satisfactory
sex life. And it wasn't like he or I wasn't
trying... we both were. I figured one of these
days what I was telling him about what I like
would kick in, and he'd get it.
Well..... it didn't. I couldn't get the
lightbulb over his head. After a long Internet
search, I found your book. It looked like what he
needed to really start rocking my world! After
screening it, I recommended it to him.
(Yeah, I read the whole thing in just a few hours.
I definitely sat there laughing and nodding to
most of it, and thinking, "Why didn't he get it
the way I said it?")
Nonetheless, he gets it now, and I know that with
lots of practice it'll get better and better.
Thanks for putting a very down-to-earth book out
there. I am very thankful!
Peace,
Jessica
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Thanks so much for your email Jessica. It's
exactly for folks like you that I wrote this book.
It really makes me happy to think that there
is a loving couple out there that are enjoying
each other more because of what I've written.
Your guy is a very lucky man to have a woman
that is willing to stick it out for love and stay
faithful and keep believing in him. And I'm sure
he must be a very special guy to have earned that
much love from you.
Keep watching for these Newsletters, because
I'm going to announce an "Advanced Class" soon
that I'm sure your husband would really enjoy.
In the meantime, I hope that the two of you keep
on practicing as much as possible!
***QUESTION***
Alex, I have read your book and gotten a lot from
it. Enjoy the newsletters also.
In your book you say a guy should be ready to get
hard again after about 15-30 minutes.
I seem to be one and out. Have NEVER been able
to go more than once. Any tips?
RL
>>>MY COMMENTS:
The truth is, there's a lot of variation
between guys on how long they take to make
the second round rally. Some guys are ready to
again almost immediately (this is very rare, but
I've heard from a few women that they do exist)...
But most guys take longer, and some of us take
a lot longer... like, the next morning maybe.
There a lot of factors that contribute to this,
including stuff like genetics that you can't do
much about.
Other big factors are physical condition
(obesity is a major problem when it comes to
keeping hard erections), your natural testosterone
level (again, diet and exercise might help here),
and practice.
That's right, more sex will make those
muscles stronger. So will "Kegel exercises"... that
exercise you do by squeezing the muscles that
you use to stop peeing. (100 a day keep the
limp dick away).
In any case, being able to get hard again is
really only an issue if you have trouble with
premature ejaculation... which you can pretty
much destroy if you follow the stuff in the
book.
If it's a question of satisfying HER, it's
a non-issue completely. You can make her come
until she passes out without having to get a
second erection-- in fact, you can give her female orgasms
until she passes out just using your fingers and
tongue.
But if it's a question of your own enjoyment...
you just want to do it again because you want to
come again...
Well, the obvious thing is to just relax and
take your time. There is really no hurry.
You need to train yourself (and maybe your
partner too) that there is no "official end"
to making love.
Most of the time the male orgasm is considered
the "grand finale."
And I guess that's partially because people
watch too much pornography. (And partly because
of how nice it feels to fall asleep afterwards
for most guys!)
But the reality is that there is no reason to
think this way.
After you come it's nice to cuddle for a while
and then maybe get a drink of water. But that
doesn't mean the night (or day) has to end.
Start up again slowly. Maybe exchange
massages or make out for a long, long time like
teenagers.
You've heard women complain that foreplay
doesn't last long enough? Here's your chance
to make her eat those words! You can tease her
nipples with your tongue for 30 minutes! You
can go down on her for just as long!
You can explore every inch of each other's
bodies.
Play her favorite music and have her do a
long, sexy dance for your pleasure. She'll
love it.
So what if it's an hour or more before you
get hard again?
Where's your rush? You got another date
later in the evening?
If you've got the time, making love like this
across the course of hours, even if actual
"intercourse" is interrupted for an hour or
more in the middle, is something that she will
never forget.
And it's a great way to build that kind of
intimacy with each other that will really
strengthen your relationship.
***SUCCESS STORY***
Alex, I just wanted to encourage you and thank
you for your newsletters. They are very
informative and I appreciate the time you have
taken to invest into the sex lives of men
everywhere with your insight...
My wife's happiness is worth every penny I could
come up with, so you will be hearing from me again
very soon.
Thanks again, and your newsletter have helped
me in a whole new way. Be blessed!
Thanks again...
CR
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Thanks for the props... and the blessings, man!
I'm glad that you are getting value from the
newsletters.
It's heartening to hear about a guy who thinks
his wife's happiness is worth every penny he can
come up with...
But, of course, the great news is that while
diamonds from tiffany and romantic trips to
Hawaii might take every penny you've got, my eBook
is as cheap as a hardcover from the local
bookstore.
You can give your wife what she wants most of
all... profoundly intimate and earth-shaking love
making with her husband... WITHOUT busting open that
piggy bank.
You can download the eBook right here:
http://www.blowhermindeverytime.com/ebook/?s=10104&e=1
***QUESTION***
Hey Alex,
I had a quick question. I'm not very experienced
in bed, I have only been with a few girls, but
the girl I am with now says I am the best she's
ever been with and that I give her multiple
orgasms. One time she said 7 and I thought it
sounded kind of extreme. I was wondering if you
could tell me a way to tell if she was really
having all of them, or if she was just faking
it. Thanks alot man.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Don't worry pal, I'm sure she's not faking it.
Having a lot of experience is not at all
necessary to being the best guy she's ever been
with.
As I have said so many times before, most
guys are completely clueless, and if you've been
applying ANY of the stuff from these Newsletters,
there is every reason to believe that you are BY
FAR the best she's been with.
As for 7 orgasms in a night. It's not extreme
at all.
All women are different, and for some women,
coming even once is a big deal. Other women
can very easily have many orgasms even if the guy
they are with doesn't know what he's doing.
But just about any woman can be unlocked for
the guy that DOES know what he's doing...
And then, as crazy it may sound to you right
now, not only can you give her 7 orgasms, you
can give her 70.
And at some point you can even learn to just
prolong her orgasm for as long as she can stand
it. (Or even just a bit longer!)
There are a couple of ways to know for sure
if she is not faking it...
One quick and easy way is that many women,
when they come, blush very deeply in their chests.
The area above their breasts becomes suddenly
flushed and red.
Of course, that's not a sure thing, especially
if she has dark skin.
Another great indicator is that right after
she comes, the smell of her vaginal fluid will
change slightly, and it's taste will become a
bit more acidic.
If there's a woman that can fake that, I have
not met her.
But the best way of all to know if she is
faking it is to have the kind of sexual intimacy
and trust between you that she'd have NO REASON
to fake it.
If she can't trust you enough to be confident
that you won't judge her or be disappointed in
her if she didn't have an orgasm, then it is
very unlikely that you could be the "best she's
ever been with."
On the other hand, when you do learn to
build that kind of trust and intimacy, there is
no level of sexual pleasure that you can't pull
out of her.
Most women have NO IDEA how much sexual
pleasure they are capable of feeling because they
CAN'T DO IT TO THEMSELVES.
It is only with the right man... a man that
they can totally surrender themselves to... that
they can reach the kind of sheet-burning, brain-
melting orgasms that I'm talking about.
When you are ready to take the next step and
become that man, all the information you need to
make it happen is right here:
Revolutionary Sex: Adanced Sex Tips For Men
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